Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 4

This is Part 4, the last, in a series.

This, Part 4 of this article, will Summarize what the previous Parts have presented – in proper order – the answer to 3 questions that make up the primary question, “How do I homeschool my children?” The answers were general for a total beginner to home education, rather than specifically on Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. We hope though that you will see how Lifestyle Education through Discpleship provides Freedom & Simplicity for an excellent Christian education, by uniting the best ideas from the other philosophies out there.

On to the Summary – “How should I homeschool my children?”:

1. Answer the question “WHY should I educate my children at home?” Develop the conviction that home education is the proper education for your children. You may already have at least a “preference” for home education, but perhaps you don’t have strong convictions that this is definitely what you are to do. Guidance in answering this question is covered in this Part 3. If you choose only one resource to read, giving strong reasons for Christian parents to follow God’s commands to give their children a strong Christian Education, rather than an government education that is specifically educating the children in it AGAINST Christianity, choose **”Excused Absence” by Douglas Wilson. If you have no Biblical reasons for home educating, perhaps you have academic or social/moral reasons which can be found in the other resources in Part 3. If you have no particular reasons, rather than you thought you’d give it a try, or you or your child don’t like their teacher, my posts and website are probably unhelpful to you.

2. Answer the question “What are my goals in home educating my children?” This will determine the answer to “HOW should I educate my children?”, which will narrow the choices of “WHAT resources should I use to educate my children?” Guidance in answering these questions are covered in Part 2 of this article. Though each family has a personal “philosophy of education” (beliefs of what makes a good education), this philosophy is formed, or reformed, by the books they read and speakers they listen to. Each of the styles of education presented in Part 2 have differing goals, methods, and resources to accomplish these. Since most people have not given a whole lot of thought to what their personal philosophy of education is, it will take time to develop, and will slowly become more defined. Research the websites and resources given. Part 2 gives a lengthy description with plenty of websites for you to check out. For your ONE, quick and easy resource order our “Introduction to Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” tape that gives a brief overview of the various styles or come to one of our Freedom & Simplicity seminars. We hope that you will choose to follow a L.E.D. approach (completely tailored to your own family), but if not check out one of the other curricula programs listed in Part 2.

As a quick overview of the styles:
Unschooling/Delight Directed – Strengths: utilizes the child’s interests in giving him a tailor made education for God’s design for his life. Weaknesses: is child led, not “family friendly” (for family unity), can be very incomplete for the child’s future need if totally directed by the child’s interests, and his own choice of inferior books.

Unit Studies – Strengths: focused topics, family friendly, integrated subjects. Weaknesses: forced integration, sometimes shallowness of actual learning of the topic as you get wrapped up in the “fun” activities that aren’t very relevant, or shallow topics themselves taking the place of life-important topics.

Living Books/Literature based/Classical – Strengths: an “excellent” education, that of stretching the mind, encouraging it to think and grow. Resources are interesting and relational stories that are remembered, not just trivial bits of information to memorize. Weaknesses: many times not family friendly (individual grade levels used), can be over rigorous for real life family usage, causing real kid burn out, possibility of creating an intellectualism of “knowledge that puffs up.”

Discipleship/Christian Worldview: Strengths: a truly Biblical Education of excellence, that is based on the Spirit and nourishes/transforms the soul. Weaknesses: What weaknesses? Well, I suppose. To disciple (lead) someone you must be going somewhere worthwhile. This requires that for you to be a leader, you must first be a learner yourself. And for you to lead someone to Jesus, Jesus must be leading you. Although this is an education of excellence, it need not be a “burn out” style of education, as He promises those that follow Him and His ways His rest.

We believe that Lifestyle Education through Discipleship, by incorporating the strengths of each of the above styles into the excellence of a Discipleship/Worldview education, provides the best of all educational philosophies. It provides a style that is based on true Wisdom, that begins with the Fear of the Lord; an education of Freedom & Simplicity that is family friendly and prevents burn-out; that utilizes real, interesting, memorable resources of excellent quality and truth, and natural, gentle methods of learning to teach focused topics, integrated across the “subjects”.

Once you choose the STYLE you will use, you will have narrowed the choices of resources considerably, but you will still have possibly thousands of choices within your chosen style.

3. Once you’ve determined WHY you are going to home educate and HOW you are going to do it, find out what your state laws are for reporting your home education. All states information here:
http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp
NE information and links to the state’s forms here: http://nchea.org

See, just 3 easy steps for the complete novice to get started in home education :- )

P.S. Check our Resources & Recommendations pages for resources listed here.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 3

This is Part 3 in a series.

This post, Part 3 of Off to a Home Ed Start, concludes the answering of our 3 questions – in reverse order. Part 4 will summarize, in proper order, “How do I start homeschooling?”

The following offers a good place to start answering this “Question #3”, that is really the first question to answer. The first part of “What else do I need to know to begin homeschooling?” should really start to be answered by asking, “WHY should you teach your children at home?” These books, available from Me and My House ministries, answer that question. I see 3 primary categories of reasons – Biblical, academic, and social. These books explain them well.

**”Excused Absence: Should Christian Kids Leave Public Schools?” by Douglas Wilson – is the most recent of these books, and perhaps the hardest hitting from a Biblical standpoint. As Marlin Detweiler from Veritas Press put it, “In this tiny volume, Doug Wilson makes the case for Christian education so strongly that, aside from willful disobedience to God’s Word, Christian parents have no reason to continue educating their children in officially agnostic public schools.” The case Mr. Wilson presents is not specifically for home education but for strong “distinctively Christian schools or home schools.” If you are looking for a “soft, nice, relativistic, make you feel good about doing whatever” book, this is NOT it.

**”Homeschooling: the Right Choice” by Christopher Klicka – of the Home School Legal Defense Association has been revised and updated for the 21st Century. Mr. Klicka points out the failure of public education in 3 critical areas – academic, moral, and philosophical, as well as the “rising hope of home schooling”.

**”Let Us Highly Resolve” by David Quine – (listed in Part 2) not specifically about “leaving public schools”, but rather about resolving to equip our children to live strong Christian lives in the 21st Century.

Gregg Harris’s **”Basic Homeschooling Workshop” tapes and **”Advanced Homeschooling Workshop” tapes were the introduction that “sold us” on not just removing our children from the negative influence of public schools, but to being sold out on HOME education. Mr. Harris’s book **”The Christian Home School” is also available.

**”Government Nannies: The Cradle-to-Grave Agenda of Goals 2000 & Outcome Based Education” by Cathy Duffy – more on the agenda of the NEA and government schools.

Marshall Foster’s, and other previously mentioned recommended authors and resources also contain much information that helps answer this question.

A few other books (that are not available through us) that may also be helpful. “Why So Many Christians are Going Home to School” by Ellyn Davis – is an easy, quick read on some of the problems of institutionalized learning. It was the first book of this kind we read, and although we had deep convictions for home educating, it pointed out many reasons we hadn’t thought of.

“Is Public Education Necessary?” by Samuel Blumenfeld – presents the myths that nearly all of us have/had bought about public education and its history. Probably the grand-daddy of them all.

“Who Owns the Children” by Blair Adams and Joel Stein – is another excellent book dispelling those myths that it is in our children’s best interest (and the state’s responsibility and right) for the state to educate our children. Long and detailed.

“Dumbing Us Down” by John Taylor Gatto (Also the “Underground History of American Education”) – an “insider” of public education, award winning teacher who left the system and now exposes and speaks out against it. Long, detailed book.

There are many other excellent books on this topic, many of them from the early days of the modern home education movement, that forged the way and provided the foundation for us, of those homeschool pioneers we are all indebted to. A few of those titles, that are worthy inclusions if you are studying the history of government/public education and the rise of Christian home education are:
“Child Abuse in the Classroom” by Phyllis Schaffly
“The Bible, Homeschooling, and the Law” by Karl Reed
“The Day they Padlocked the Church” by H. Edward Rowe

I could go on and on, but I’m writing an article not a book. For one more article on “Why Homeschool?” read our back post entitled:
“thoughts on public school”, Sept. 21, 2002.

Go to Part 4.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 2

This post contains Part 2 in a series. 

This post continues answering the question, “How do I start homeschooling?” which I’ve broken down into 3 questions. “What does my state require?” and “Where do I get my curriculum?” were covered in Part 1 of this article/series of posts. (This post also will continue to answer the “Where” question.) My final question, which is actually the most important and first one you need to consider is, “What else do I need to know to begin homeschooling?”. The answer to that question is a question to you. “What are YOUR goals in home education?” “WHY are you home schooling?” Your goals will determine the methods and the resources (“curriculum”) you use. Below is an introduction to styles of home education using “real books”; other information on various educational approaches is on our “Introduction to Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” audio. And of course, much more on the method and resources we’ve chosen to base Lifestyle Education through Discipleship™ on is on our website, in our seminar (see below), through this blog – and of course in our publications.

Lifestyle Education through Discipleship combines the best, most family friendly aspects of many of the “Real Books” types of philosophies/methods listed below, for a Christian Worldview education of excellence in Freedom & Simplicity. You may wonder why books on various styles of home education are available from Me and My House ministries when we have our “own” Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. Because L.E.D. utilizes aspects from varying philosophies, we believe it is helpful to understand those philosophies themselves, that you also can glean from them what is best, to design the unique curriculum God desires for your family. There are a very few actual curricula that we make available to you, not as our personal “ideal” recommendations, but for those that choose to stay with a specific style in more purity; for those that feel they need a transitionary “published curriculum” to ease them into designing their own personal L.E.D. for their own unique family, through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and the discipleship of Me and My House.

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In Part 1 I explained that there is no “set” curriculum, and your answers to my third question will help determine what TYPE/STYLE of curriculum is right for your family. I’ve already covered Textbooks/Workbooks, and won’t give any further explanation of its”philosophy”. In this post I will cover different types of philosophies and methods that utilize “Real Books” for their curriculum and some of the prominent curricula available that utilize those methods. The generalizations made here may not apply to all that follow a certain method. They are just that, generalizations. But, for the sake of this being an “article” not a “book”, and because the purpose is to quickly open the eyes of a beginning home educator to “what is out there”, these descriptions need to be brief – though to cover just what we do here this post is lengthy. Therefore, this won’t include even all TYPES/STYLES of “real books” educational ideas – just a few prominent ones, let alone all resources and their providers – which could not be done even in a book. But it should give you some ideas of where to begin to look, once you’ve decided what you’re looking for. It begins your research for you. And in the vast amount of material available to home educators today, this “narrowing the field” is a great start to helping decide your curriculum. Also, you need to realize that there is much “cross-over” – many curricula incorporate one than one type/style of education. Again, these categorizations are generalizations.

Obviously, we prefer and recommend the philosophy and methods of Lifestyle Education through Discipleship, but we give these others so you will have an idea of what is out there, and also so you will see how L.E.D. incorporates various aspects from most of them. ** items are available through Me and My House ministries.

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a) UNSCHOOLING or “DELIGHT DIRECTED”
Unschooling or delight directed learning is a “child led” education, focusing on the interests of the child. Usually the “real books” and resources utilized in this type of education are whatever the child finds in the library or on the internet or perhaps his family’s library that is of interest to him. Obviously, there is no written curriculum or book list for this. It flows as the child’s interests come and go, in whatever the topic may be – not just “recognized” school “subjects”. Some parents help guide the child into turning these interests into a type of Unit Study (see below). “Relaxed Home School” by Mary Hood gives a good overview of this style of education.

Aspects of Delight Directed education, that are present in Lifestyle Education through Discipleship are, that a child’s interests and learning styles/abilities should be taken into consideration when planning his curriculum. Those interests are God-given and indicators of God’s design for his future. However, this can be done without sacrificing the more “family friendly” methods of other styles. And we do not agree with the philosophy that a child can appropriately direct his own education. Proverbs tells us that a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. And Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and Ephesians instruct us to diligently teach our children, guiding and directing their education.

Before I move on to the next styles, I want to give you a brief introduction to two names you will see repeatedly below. 2 women have greatly influenced the usage of “Real Books” in education – Charlotte Mason and Ruth Beechick. Charlotte Mason was an educator in England in the late 1800’s who “believed that children needed to experience and observe creation, live full lives, and feed their minds and hearts on lofty ideas and Living Books, not twaddle.” Dr. Ruth Beechick is a current proponent of home education whose philosophy is very similar to Miss Mason’s. She helps parents to teach the basics (reading, writing, and arithmetic) in “a very simple straightforward method and use Living Books for everything else.” The methods used are gentle, natural, and time proven. The teachings of these two have greatly influenced our own L.E.D., as well as many of the programs listed below.

b) UNIT STUDIES
Unit Studies are catching on even in institutional classrooms, as a more effective way to teach. Unit studies integrate subjects through the study of a certain topic, usually including some hands-on experiences. Unit Studies can be parent designed (meaning YOU make them up for your family) or a “written program” you purchase (probably written by another home school mom).

Because a Unit Study can be based on virtually ANY topic, there is a wide difference in published Unit Studies, and their philosophies and differences. Some, NOT ALL, Unit Study programs can be perceived as labor intensive for mom. Most are multi-level, rather than individual grade-level based, meaning your whole family is learning together – everyone learning the same topic, each on their own level. This makes them much more family friendly than textbooks/workbooks or delight directed learning. Mom is not forced to keep up with the many different subjects and topics of many different grade levels. Many of the “full curriculum” Unit Studies (as opposed to just individual units) are based on a 4 year rotation plan, and cover all topics in all subjects within that rotation. There are no specific resources listed here on learning about the “Unit Study” method in general. The resources listed below are first – resources for helping you design your own Unit Studies, and second – “published” Unit Study curricula.

“Published” Unit Studies give recommended book lists of “real books” to read, to go along with the activities/assignments (and any background information or other “lesson”) they suggest. Some list mainly books you can find at your public library and note that you can substitute any book your library has. Others list (and possibly include) books that would be harder to find in your public library, but are more assuring of providing appropriate content than just choosing any library book on the topic. The descriptions of these Unit Studies resources is a little more detailed, because we have used or thoroughly researched them. My opinion is sometimes included, although they still aren’t “our recommended choice” of method/philosophy.

**”Unit Studies Made Easy” – (An updated and expanded version of “How to Create a Unit Study” and Valerie’s other 3 “unit study” books) – http://www.valeriebendt.com/unit_studies_made_easy.asp – is a guide to creating your own unit studies just for your family. Mrs. Bendt helps you create literature based unit studies. Many of her educational ideas are based on Charlotte Mason’s and Ruth Beechick’s philosophies.

**”Design-A-Study” guides by Kathryn Stout – http://designastudy.com/ – help you design your own studies/curriculum in most “subjects”. They can be helpful guides for those just starting out on their own.

We have used both of these sets of resources (Bendt’s previous edition) in the past, when we were beginning to form our own “style” and designing our own Unit Studies. They may be helpful, but are not
necessary for those following the Lifestyle Education through
Discipleship methods.

Below (toward the end of this post) you will find a couple of books
listed that are “books of books”, that can help you choose books to use your own Unit Studies or ANY type of study.

A few of the most popular Unit Study programs are:
“KONOS” – http://konos.com/ – is a more “hands-on” activities oriented Unit Study program, that covers all grades up to 8th, in 3 Volumes covering 2.5 years each. Separate KONOS “History of the World” is available for high school students to complete through independant study. KONOS is especially good if you have active boys/children that like to DO things to learn. The Units are based on Character traits, and cover “everything”, including writing, except no upper level grammar instruction. Original KONOS relies on library books or getting your own, the newer “KONOS In a Box” includes books, and a more structured, detailed layout. We loved many aspects of KONOS (original). Drawbacks, IMO! – too much activity oriented for ME. Too much time at the library and hunting down good appropriate books, and planning and completing “fun” but not necessarily directly educational activities.

“Weaver” – http://www.aop.com (This is the Alpha Omega website, you’ll have to click through to “Weaver”) – More structured, workpage, grade level oriented assignments. It has a supplement to add high school to it. Good if you are transitioning from textbooks/workbooks and your kids learn well that way. Not to say there aren’t activities but it is more seatwork oriented. Units are Bible based, chronological through the Bible, but the program covers “everything” including writing. This was our first non-text/workbook curriculum. I really liked the Bible base, and everyone learning the same topics together. It was probably the beginning of the development of our philosophy away from “school at home”. Drawbacks, IMO! – too “schoolish”, individual grade level assignments, and slow moving.

“Tapestry of Grace” – http://www.tapestryofgrace.com/ – is Biblical Worldview based, utilizing classic books of Western Civilization. It covers all grades through high school. Progresses chronologically through history. Science is not included, but history of science is intertwined. Writing program is integrated.

**”Heart of Wisdom” – http://heartofwisdom.com/ – is Bible based, utilizing Charlotte Mason type methods (living books, copywork, narrating and notebooking). It’s written for grades 4-12, but can also be used for K-3, (I heard that add ons for K-3 are being added.) It includes Bible study, chronological history, and days of creation order for science. There are three tracks of units – History, Science, and adds on Life Skills for High school. The studies are Internet linked, and it also builds a good home library of real books. This is the Unit Study that most lines up with our philosophy and style, and what we would possibly use if we went back to published unit studies. Drawback – only year one currently available.

“Far Above Rubies” & “Blessed is the Man” – publisher/supplier not online – are gender specific unit studies for high school students. We used these when they first came out, when our oldest was in high school because they integrated all the books we wanted her to read anyhow. They are based on Scripture – girls, Proverbs 31:10-31, and boys, Psalm 1. They are very “Christian life” prepatory. They may be considered too “Conservative Christian” for some, but the author does not make your decisions about these issues for you, she urges you to research and come to your own conclusions. But she does present issues that you may not otherwise consider. Like I mentioned, what we loved most about this curriculum is it used all the books we had already determined we wanted our daughters to read, by integrating them into a full curriculum. What I didn’t like was that nothing was really presented in a systematic fashion, “line upon line”. I felt some “subjects” weren’t getting the thoroughness of systematic study that they needed at a high school level.

There are many other Unit Studies programs available. Some are full programs integrating all subjects, covering “everything your child needs” K-12. Others are single units, covering one topic, utilizing a few of the subjects (sometimes just history or science and writing) and applicable for only 1 or 2 “grade levels”.

The aspects of Unit Studies that Lifestyle Education through Discipleship incorporates are: focused topics of study (providing greater depth of understanding); family study (everyone learning the same topics together); integrated subjects (where applicable – this is one “negative” about many published “full-curriculum” Unit Studies, they tend to “force” integration where it doesn’t naturally fit, and you scratch your head and say “What does this have to do with that?” It’s a stretch.)

c) “LIVING BOOKS”/ LITERATURE BASED/CLASSICAL
This has possibly become the largest “new”/old method and philosophy, or at least the fastest growing. There is a lot of variation within this category, but the primary unifying factor is that the curriculum is not based on a textbook nor a “unit” integrating all subjects into a certain “topic”, but rather on reading GREAT real literature. Within this category is the GREAT BOOKS or CLASSICAL method, the CHARLOTTE MASON “LIVING BOOKS” method, as well as other methods utilizing “Classical Literature” or other Living Books as their base. This method, and the one below, “DISCIPLESHIP/ CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW” are probably the most “picky” in the actual resources they utilize. Though the Classical and Living Books styles utilize only very well written, “excellent” books, not “dumbed down” insignificant “twaddle”, their choices do not always present an accurate Christian Worldview.

Charlotte Mason methods utilize an environment of excellence, – in literature, music, art, languages, nature – and gentle, natural methods – such as narration, copywork, dictation, and notebooking – to instill a love for learning. Classical methods utilize the “Trivium”, giving the tools for learning, logic (proper thinking), and rhetoric (debate).

This type of curriculum, like unit studies, can be parent directed or a “written program” by others. It is “literature” based (as opposed to “activity” based) and generally is not as interested in integrating the subjects as Unit Studies, and is usually more “grade level” oriented.

These resources explain the philosophies and methods of Charlotte Mason, Ruth Beechick, and Classical education:
**”For the Children’s Sake: Foundations of Education for Home & School” by Susan Schaeffer McCauley – Charlotte Mason style.

**”A Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on The Gentle Art of Learning” by Karen Andreola – Mrs. Andreola’s and Mrs. McCauley’s books are foundational understanding of Charlotte Mason’s ideas. Of course, you can also read Charlotte Mason’s own works, but some find them too long and detailed for most modern readers who have not had an excellent literary education themselves.

**”A Charlotte Mason Primer” (and other works) by Cindy Rushton – a short, easy read on the basics of the Charlotte Mason method.

**”The Three R’s” series by Ruth Beechick
**”How to Teach Your Child Successfully” by Ruth Beechick – two very important guides for getting started in providing a “real books” education for your children.

**”Teaching the Trivium: Christian Homeschooling in a Classical Style”
by Harvey & Laurie Bluedorn of Trivium Pursuit – http://triviumpursuit.com/ – understanding Classical Education from a Christian viewpoint. We met them many years ago as side-by-side vendors at many conventions and curriculum fairs, as well as had them come to North Platte to speak.

The Well Trained Mind – http://www.welltrainedmind.com/ – is a
currently very popular book (but not one we recommend) on the classical method of home education.

A few LIVING BOOKS/LITERATURE based/CLASSICAL programs are:
“Ambleside Online” – http://amblesideonline.homestead.com/index.html – is a free online curriculum for individual grades k-6 that utilizes Charlotte Mason methods.

“Living Lessons” – http://www.bereanbookshelf.com/ – Here’s a more
specific link to the Living Lessons pages:
http://www.bereanbookshelf.com/Living%20Lessons%20-%20Home%20Page.htm – from Berean Bookshelf – a classic literature based curriculum, with a strong Christian Worldview and critical thinking emphasis for individual grades pre k-12. Booklist not available online, but publishers of the books used are listed. No questionable books included, some textbooks used.

Tanglewood – http://www.tanglewoodeducation.com/index.htm – a classical and Charlotte Mason homeschool designed curriculum for individual grades k-8. Available in “kits” or “create your own curriculum” format.

Great Books Academy – http://www.greatbooksacademy.org/ – Classical, liberal arts program for individual grades nursery-12.

Veritas Press – http://www.veritaspress.com – is “a full service curriculum provider with a classical specialization”. Veritas Press has written many of its own classical curriculum programs.

Lifestyle Education through Discipleship utilizes Living Books and an environment of excellence and gentle, natural learning methods to instill a delight in learning, narration, copywork, dictation, and notebooking (like Charlotte Mason), and emphasizes “right reasoning” and the ability to communicate it effectively (logic and rhetoric) and also divides learning into 3 Seasons (like the Classical method, but not completely the way they do).

d) DISCIPLESHIP or CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW
The Discipleship and Christian Worldview philosophies generally go hand in hand. These are methods that concentrate on providing a thoroughly Christian education as directed by God in Deuteronomy 6:7, Isaiah 54:13, and other places in Scripture. The examples given here utilize “real books” of high caliber/excellence (as opposed to “twaddle”) just like the Living Books and Classical methods do, but the resources for these methods are decidedly by those with a Christian Worldview (or for older students, to contrast with the Christian Worldview through the guidance of the “curriculum”). Many Discipleship/Christian Worldview curricula also utilize aspects of “Classical” education.

The Discipleship aspect of these styles is in the fact that the children are learning step-by-step through the guidance of the parent, as indicated in Deut. 6:7. Lifestyle Education through Discipleship is primarily a Discipleship/Worldview philosophy, which has also incorporated many valuable aspects from other philosophies/methods that make home education in “Freedom & Simplicity” a reality.

The Principle Approach is a Discipleship/Worldview method that teaches principles of reflective thinking and reasoning that produce a Christian Worldview. This is truly a method of excellence with a strong Biblical Worldview. In its purity, it is also an individual grade level, individual subjects curriculum to be taught by a “Master Teacher”. IOW, the parents become Master Teachers, to teach their students. We agree this is the ultimate in discipleship, but believe it is not practically feasible for full time parents of many children of many differing ages to become Master Teachers of every subject before they begin home educating. The Principle Approach utilizes “4 R-ing” to study a topic (Research, Reason, Relate, and Record, and “notebooking”, a truly excellent method of learning, also used by the “teacher” as she learns to teach the topic.

These resources explain the philosophies and methods of education based on DISCIPLESHIP and CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW:
**”Homeschool vs. Discipleship” (and others) by Jonathan Lindvall, – http://www.boldchristianliving.com/ – a Christian homeschool speaker and dad. Spending time with Mr. Lindvall through conventions, his seminars, and hosting his seminar was very influential to us in the area of the philosophy of Discipleship Education. Tapes and videos
from his seminars and workshops are available.

**”Homeschooling from a Biblical Worldview” by Israel Wayne – http://www.biblical-worldview.com/ – a good introduction to this philosophy.

**”Let Us Highly Resolve” (and others) by David Quine. (See “Starting Points” below.)

Marshall Foster of the Mayflower Institute – http://www.mayflowerinstitute.com – for restoring Christian families, and in turn our nation, to our Christian worldview heritage – with his “king size bed” approach to home education greatly influenced us. The
philosophy of the “king size bed” approach is basically this, the
family gathering together daily for a time of the parents sharing –
discipling in – the ways of God. Also that 80% of education has nothing to do with your “curriculum” that you use during “school hours”, but rather is what you do all day long with your children by your side. In addition to the time we spent with him at conventions, and his workshops there, his tape series “World Changers” and “Battle for the 21st Century” are among our favorites. (See also his Worldview resource below.) Mr. Foster’s views align with the Principle Approach. (Mr. Foster’s resources are recommended but not available through Me
and My House ministries.)

Jeff Myers of the Myers Institute – http://myersinstitute.com – is also a speaker/educator on Biblical Worldview and communication whose workshops and tapes are excellent in this area. (Mr. Myers’ resources are recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

“Come Let Us Reason” by Kris Bayer is a great overview of the Principle Approach, in an easy to understand way for homeschooling families to use. Written by a friend of mine. (Mrs. Bayer’s book is recommended but not available from Me and My House.)

**”A Guide to American Christian Education for the Home” is THE book on learning about the Principle Approach and how to implement it – big and detailed.

All the resources listed in this section (above) are recommended by Me and My House ministries.

A few DISCIPLESHIP/WORLDVIEW programs are:
**”Starting Points” and “Worldviews of the Western World” – from Cornerstone Curriculum – http://cornerstonecurriculum.com – Worldviews… is a Christian classical three-year program (for use by those in grades 8-12) that is “built largely around the works of Francis Schaeffer. Students still read Homer, Socrates, and Machiavelli. But these are balanced not only by Schaeffer’s works, but also by St. Augustine, Luther, and Calvin.” Starting Points is a one year Introductory Course to World Views. Math, Science, Art, and Music programs also available from Cornerstone Curriculum.

Foundation for American Christian Education – http://face.net/
publishes classical education materials based on the Principle
Approach. The “Noah Plan” is FACE’s complete curriculum. Subject specific Curriculum Guides and many other recommended resources are also available.

**”Understanding the Times” by David Noebel
**”Thinking Like a Christian” by David Noebel
“Christian Home Learning Guide” by Marshall Foster
are all good Biblical Worldview curricula. (The “Christian Home Learning Guide” is recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

The “PEERS” test from Nehemiah Institute – http://www.nehemiahinstitute.com/ – is an excellent assessment of your student’s (and your!) worldview. They also provide worldview training. (The “PEERS” test is recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

“Far Above Rubies” and “Blessed is the Man” unit studies listed above are also very discipleship oriented and Christian Worldview based.

Our Lifestyle Education through Discipleship fits best into the DISCIPLESHIP/CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW style, (incorporating aspects of Unit Studies and Living Books). We are NOT grade level oriented and we do integrate the subjects as much as is natural (like Unit Studies). (However, we don’t believe in forcing every subject into every topical study just because it is “required”.) We do utilize only “excellent” literature (no twaddle), the importance of “right reasoning” (logic), excellence in environment (the liberal arts), and many gentle, natural methods (like Classical and Charlotte Mason, Living Books styles.) We utilize much of the Principle Approach’s study methods and notebooking, as ADAPTED for use in the multi-level homeschool FAMILY setting. We also incorporate the “Better Late than Early” philosophy of Raymond Moore (as mentioned below.)

Although we do not publish a “curriculum”, you can read about the Freedom & Simplicity of designing your own based on “Real Books” on our website or attend our “Freedom & Simplicity” seminar or utilize our other L.E.D. resources. Wisdom’s 7 Pillars framework is a broad overview of Lifestyle Education through Discipleship based on “Real Books/Resources” from Me and My House.

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Again, we are not specifically recommending all the particular programs listed above, except for Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. The others are listed as good examples of these types of curricula.

Here’s a few resources for helping you implement any of the “Real
Books” styles:

**”Let the Authors Speak” by Carolyn Hatcher – a “book of books” – listing good “real books” and their time and place setting, to help you choose appropriate books to study, as you travel through God’s HisStory throughout the “time and space” of the earth. We can’t vouch for the worthiness of ALL the books listed in this resource.

**”Books Children Love” by Elizabeth Wilson – another “book of books”, this one giving more detailed decriptions of the books.

**”Encyclopedia of Bible Truths: for School Subjects” by Ruth Haycock – Scriptures categorized and outlined for use in teaching from a Biblical Worldview. Very helpful for incorporating a Biblical Worldview/Priniciple Approach in your studies of any style and highly recommended.

Other resources and speakers that greatly influenced us and L.E.D. are:
**”Better Late Than Early” by Raymond Moore – Dr. Moore is considered the father of the modern home education “movement”. It was Dr. Moore’s research for the US government, that brought to light the fact that the institutional school setting and its methods are not the best way for children to learn. Dr. Moore’s conclusions, among other things, indicate that it is best for children (up to 10 or 12 years old) to learn informally, without being “pushed”. Our L.E.D. philosophy incorporates Dr. Moore’s ideas.

“Wisdom’s Children” by Blair Adams and Joel Stein
“Far Above Rubies” by David Mulligan
These 2 books were very instrumental in formulating our L.E.D. philosophy. They build a Christian educational philosophy on the foundation of Knowledge, Understanding, and Wisdom. We also learned of Marilyn Howshall’s “Wisdom’s Way of Learning” along the way, which includes several similar elements, such as integrating Principle Approach and Classical methods with relaxed, real life.

Part 3 of this post will answer probably the most important aspect of this question, “WHY should I teach my children at home?” Part 4 will summarize the first 3 Parts of this article.

** items are available though us.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 1

Much of what the articles on this site contain is learning how to give our children a “Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” – how to home educate in this specific way, which is very “non-conforming” to the ways of institutionalized, government education. But many times I get asked a much more basic question, where to start home education AT ALL!

Most of you on this list are probably already home educating your
children, and are not asking this particular question anymore. Some of
you aren’t yet, and are just “looking into it,” desperately seeking
answers to this question. Those that are already home educating
probably get asked the questions these next few posts will cover.
Rather than saying, “Call Mrs. Z, our support group leader,” perhaps
you can glean from these posts and pass the info on.

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So you are interested in homeschooling your child? More than likely
you have asked, or want to ask, if you could just find someone to ask,
“How do I homeschool?” Let me tell you, that’s an impossible question
to answer, without asking you many, many questions in return. It is
also not a question that can be answered in 5 minutes, or an hour, or
even in an all day seminar or lengthy article.

But let me use this article to attempt to point you toward some
direction that may help you BEGIN to answer that question. Actually
only YOU can answer that question for yourself/ your family – but not
until you answer many other questions. Perhaps your question is better
rephrased, “How or where to I begin to learn about homeschooling?”

There are 3 main things you are probably asking with the question, “How
do I start homeschooling?” They are: “What does my state require?”
“Where do I get my curriculum?” “What else do I need to know to get
started?” Some parents may not even include the last question, but I
consider it the most important and by far the most extensive. In fact,
I consider the order of these 3 to be in the opposite order as I’ve
listed them above. I can give you a quick answer to finding your
state’s legal “requirements”. I can give you a list of websites or
addresses of curriculum providers, but it would be FAR from exhaustive.
(Actually, I will only give you a few for each of a few different types
of curricula.) There are many thousands, I’m sure. It is an area that
has virtually exploded in the last 10 years or so. But to know which
of these thousands to choose from, that will be the right choice for
your family, will take careful exploration, time, research and prayer
to answer the last question in the above list.
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#1) Again, I do not consider this to be the most important, nor the
first thing you need to know about home education, but it’s the one
most people want the answer to first. “What does my state require?”
People are so used to the government or other “experts” telling them
what they “need” or “have” to do, that they immediately want to know
what the state says they have to do. This is the first misconception
many have, and they feel more obligation to what the state “requires”
for education than what God does. The truth is God gave your children
to YOU, not the state to raise and educate. The state has no valid
authority in education. But since this is an easy enough question to
answer, and probably the first you thought of, I will answer it first.

a) WHERE TO FIND OUT THE HOMESCHOOL LAW FOR ANY STATE –
Home School Legal Defense Association – http://hslda.org/ is a great
organization for home educating parents to join, and has information on
each state’s home school laws on their website. Go to this page, and
click on your state. http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp

b) WHERE TO GET INFORMATION AND THE NECESSARY FORMS FOR NEBRASKA –
For more info on home education in NE, go to the Nebraska Christian
Home Educators Association (our state homeschool organization) website:
http://nchea.org/ There is a link to the Nebraska Department of
Education website where you can print out the law and the forms.

c) BASIC OVERVIEW OF NE HOMESCHOOL LAW – in layman’s terms – IOW, you need to read over the actual law before you file, but these are the
basics of what you need to do. Home School Legal Defense Association
gives a “legal analysis” at their website.
http://me-and-my-house/led-nelaw.htm

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#2) Where do I get my curriculum?
A second, major general misconception, of those new to home education
is that there is some set standard of books to use, information that
needs to be learned, etc. But there is no such thing. God has
certainly not ordained that every child of age X must learn Y material
or they will be “behind”. And neither is there a set governmental
standard, though some are pushing for such. Each district has its own
set of “requirements” and texts and (or not) – but that’s another issue.

But it leads to the answer to this question. It could be any
one of thousands of places. There are other questions YOU need to
answer before YOU answer this one. Here are some popular answers as to
the TYPES of resources you can use, that may or may not work for you.
I only know of resources for Christian textbook/workbook curricula, for
non-Christian resources you will have to do your own research. See
question #3 for help in deciding which of these types of curriculum is
right for your family.

a) TEXTBOOKS/ WORKBOOKS
These are probably the types of curricula you are most familiar with,
more than likely even the ONLY type you know of. They are the type
used in government and most private schools. One text or set of
workbooks for each grade level in each subject. If you plan to return
your child to the “system” very soon, and if it is very important to you
that your child follow the lock-step regimen of a government type of
education, and you want to continue teaching your child in the ways and
methods used by those institutions whether it is the best way for your
child to learn or not, you probably need to look no further than this
category.

Can you tell I don’t think much of this approach? Although I can’t
deny that there can be some good information in these Christian texts,
I do not believe this method is the best way for children to learn or
parents to teach. I have many reasons that I haven’t the time or space
to go into here. But a primary one is this is not a family-friendly
way to fulfill our God-given responsibility to “train up our children”
in the “education and admonition of the Lord.” But for those of you
that prefer to stay on this same path, here are some of the most
popular. These all come from a conservative Christian viewpoint.

ABeka – http://abeka.com/ – Christian grade-level, subject specific
textbooks. Even has an Academy, DVD program where your child would be
enrolled in their school, and they would receive teaching via DVDs, and
the academy would keep records and issue grades.

Bob Jones – http://www.bjup.com – another Christian grade-level,
subject specific textbook curricula. Bob Jones also has a “satellite”
program for distance learning in a “nationwide classroom.”

Alpha Omega – http://aop.com – this company uses “LifePac” worktexts
instead of textbooks. There are generally 10 LifePac workbooks per
subject, per grade-level. Alpha Omega also now carries other
curricula, Switched on Schoolhouse, which is computer-based instead of
textbooks, and Weaver, which is a Unit Study curriculum covered in part
2.

These are 3 of the most popular. There are many, many more.

b) REAL BOOKS – Here I am using this term a little more loosely than I
use it in describing L.E.D.’s 4 Real Resources. Here I am using it in
the context of, as opposed to textbooks. There are 2 (or more) very
different categories of “real books” users. Using “real books” can be
a more loosely structured type of curricula, or VERY structured,
sometimes more rigorous than a textbook approach. There are MANY, MANY
variations of using “real books” for your curriculum. This can be as
unstructured as just checking out library books on any topic you are
interested in or as structured as following a “Classical Curriculum”
based on great classical literature. I will define some of the
differences in the philosophies or “approaches” (thoughts and ideas of
what education should be and what methods should be used) that
determine which way “real books” are used, when I answer the next
question. Also, I cannot give you specifics on “where” to get the
actual plans for using these books (which is all a “curriculum”
actually is – your plan for teaching) – until I answer question #3.
For now I’ll give you a few ideas of the VAST AMOUNT OF PLACES where to
find various types of “real books”.

libraries – your local public library, university library, interlibrary
loan, church library, “friends’ library” 🙂

bookstores – general bookstores, Christian bookstores, “educational”
bookstores (though not as many “real books” at these), used bookstores, online bookstores – check out the Resources and Recommendations on our website, for ordering through CBD at great discounts.

online – the text for many books, especially older “classics” can be
found online. Also much general information about nearly any topic can
be found there.

We don’t generally recommend, this newest type of “curriculum” – the
Internet Hodge-Podge. Granted, there is much information available on
the “information highway”, but indiscriminately forming a curriculum
based on whatever you can find on the web will not give your child a
comprehensive nor cohesive education, just a “hodge-podge” of unrelated
information. There are many different worldviews, biases, and ideas
about education out there. If you utilize “free” curriculum from any
website you can find with information on the topic, your child will
receive a very confusing education. That said, there is much very good
information on the “net”. But you must use much discernment and
discretion in choosing “what” to use, and do much research to find what
is worthy.

Part 2 will answer our 3rd question – and give you an idea of the
different “methods” of home education, that will determine the types of
resources you will use (and the specific places you can find them).
Well, I’ll give you a very brief start on it anyhow.

For more detailed information on the types of curriculum and methods of
teaching, and just plain differing ideas (philosophies) of home
educating, order our workshop audio, “Introduction to L.E.D.