Freedom & Simplicity™ vs. Complicated Confusion

As I sat down to work on our plans for our next learning term, the Holy Spirit nudged and said, “It’s time to put all the planning guides away.” Although I love reading and learning more about the ways we’ve chosen to incorporate in teaching our children, it was time to stop relying on the plans of men, and to trust God to lead me in HIS plan for our children.

It was not by coincidence that a friend and I visited back and forth throughout the day about some questions she had that were causing frustration from a lack of understanding complex methodologies. It was further confirmation that I would only bring myself under bondage to try to continue to push further in this direction at this time. I didn’t need more “ideas” and a purer, “higher” path. I needed to continue to walk in the Freedom & Simplicity™ He has time and again shown me, and I try to convey to others.
Read the end for the third confirmation….

Are you feeling burdened in planning your studies? Do you feel inadequate? Is it just not coming together? You can’t understand it? Here’s what I wrote my friend:
I don’t think God’s way should be hard, nor impossible to understand. He tells us to come to Him when we are heavy laden; and to take His yoke, for it is easy and His burden is light. I do believe teaching our children requires work and sacrifice, but it should not produce confusion and a lack of understanding. Our generation has to pay a higher price since we are laying the foundation. This sacrifice is primarily Rom. 12:1-2, that of renewing OUR minds to a Biblical Worldview, that requires more study from us. Hopefully this will be MUCH easier for our kids – growing up with a Biblical worldview to pass on to theirs. I believe we need to build great libraries of learning for our families/communities once again. But let’s get on to LEARNING, not just ALWAYS learning ABOUT learning!

It IS a renewing the mind thing. But does God really want us to work and strive and stress for YEARS trying to figure it out BEFORE we can help our children, I think not. He wants us to impart ourselves and His Word into them. AND to grow year by year as we do it, but not to be UNABLE to do it at all for YEARS. Not all moms have been given great academic capabilities. Would they EVER catch on to how this should ll fit together? Does that mean God doesn’t want those moms to teach by Biblical principles? That he wants them to send their kids to institutional schools? I think not. That is setting up the same mindset as government schools, that only the “experts” are qualified to teach.

Does God want us to only teach History or Literature or whatever one “subject” by His principles, until we can get the hang of moving ALL of them over to His way – maybe when they’re in high school we’ll be ready to add Math or whatever? I think not. As I’ve said, I will never be a Master Teacher in every subject. I am a MOM with a LOT of other responsibilities too, but that does not negate that I am the BEST, God-appointed teacher for my children.

It is not His will for you to be under such burden over this. God does not say that whom He equips He calls, but rather, whom He calls He equips. The things He has planted in me, that I have internalized , that I need to do this year, will be brought to remembrance by Holy Spirit. Anything not – I don’t need, not for now anyhow. He who called me has prepared me. I have not been negligent in listening to Him, nor in studying. Anything I can read or learn now WITH UNDERSTANDING (and throughout this and every year), will be applied as God directs (His way is not burdensome!)

What makes sense and fits, I will incorporate. If not I won’t. I just add things as I see helpful. Otherwise I continue on the path God has set me on. I can’t teach what I don’t know/understand. I grow each year, but it is in what God is doing in me – not in a complex, hard to understand program. I think there are many valuable things to be gleaned from Biblical based programs. But I think the complicatedness and confusion is not from God.

I am not saying to throw out what you have learned from others. I’m saying what doesn’t make sense and fit together, don’t worry about now. Perhaps someday it will. But if it doesn’t now, without burden, then it isn’t for now.

And now for my third confirmation, that this is a timely message some of you need to hear now. The new Homeschooling Today magazine just came. Jennie Chancey had an article, From the Pen of an “Unqualified” Parent, that was very relative to this topic. She talked about some, even within Christian Education, who deem parents unqualified to train their own children if they haven’t had the proper rigorous training in “their” method.

She said, “Where is the scriptural exegesis to demonstrate that parents are unqualified if they do not measure up to a human educational standard? … Lest anyone misunderstand me, I am not advocating ignorance or a deliberate dumbing down of educational goals. … but goals [of high objectives] must be subordinate to God’s revealed will in the Scriptures. ….God’s Word can “thoroughly equip” each of us for “every good work” (which would include the training of our children). …. Surely it is a better goal for the church to equip all of the saints (no matter what their educational attainments) to train their own children biblically and with humility.”

There, it is said, what we are dealing with is nothing but educational pride, religious eduational pride – high and lofty, “I’m qualified and if you don’t understand you aren’t.” You thought perhaps Paul wasn’t God-inspired to write, “Knowledge puffs up”? As we continue to learn, it is a danger we must all watch out for. “God does not share His glory with men, no matter how sound they belive their instructive methods may be.”

I’ll close with one more quote from that article: “But let us not promote human standards and methodologies and declare all who cannot reach them “disqualified”. Dear parent, take heart. It is God who qualifies you to teach your children, not the understanding of some method – good as that method may be.

And thanks L. for our great dialog on keeping Freedom & Simplicity™ from turning into bondage through complicated confusion.

 

Balanced or Weighted?

As I’m known to reiterate, the philosophy is the principle thing for Lifestyle Education through Discipleship™ – the big picture, the wisdom of it. The methodology is the key to Freedom & Simplicity™, taking the philosophy from theory to application. It is applied to the content through Wisdom’s 7 Pillars.

But I hope none are looking to Wisdom’s 7 Pillars as a “curriculum” of what needs to be learned, at what depth, at what stage to be a “complete” education. The 7 Pillars are only a categorizing of topics of study from within God’s vast possibilities for learning. They are just a framework to help us structure and organize our learning. Recently I have been excited to see how closely most of them line up with the divisions of the Bible. But that’s another topic for another day.

Within, or without, the Pillars you are free to apply the philosophy and methodology to the Pillars as light or as deep as you desire. This is where I firmly believe that family discipleship and legacy fits in. God has given you your children because He desires for you to teach and train them in things He has put in you!

Perhaps you will only teach foundational principles and then skim science. But you will forge the depths of history. Perhaps you will accent music, or art, or Bible doctrine, or government. Perhaps writing is your forte, or speaking. Perhaps studying the precision of creation through mathematical equations.

Where is God calling you? Search the scriptures. Notice how God calls families into His purposes. Perhaps He’s wanting to start something in you that He desires to bring to fruition through your children. Don’t be afraid to focus on your strong points, to pass onto your children what God has worked in you.

World changers have never been the people with the average, “required” status quo education. They have always (I probably shouldn’t use such ‘extreme’ terms) been those a little different, who excelled in their calling, but many times were considered “inadequate” (at least in their early years) because they didn’t have a “well rounded” edcuation, and were “sub-standard” in many areas.

I believe that we all need to see God’s principles and purposes for all the Pillars, but thorough delving deeply into each may not be God’s unique calling for our individual families. We need to walk in the freedom and individuality He has for our unique family to focus on the area(s) He desires for us. We need to focus on His focus for our family.

As R.C. Sproul Jr. puts it, there are only 3 things absolutely necessary. They are the core curriculum, required for all families. He calls them the Three G’s. They are: Who is God? What has God done? What does God require of me? Beyond that is up to God’s grace in your own family. We need not all study the same things, but we must all study something. We all need knowledge and skills in some area to fulfill God’s purpose for our lives.

Go to God and ask Him, what is His call and emphasis for your family. It’s probably a natural for you though. He put it in you! He has given you freedom to walk in who He has made you. Don’t question nor regret what He has made you. Don’t question or regret what you are or are not able to give your children. Study to show yourself approved. Give your children Jesus and His Word – the Three G’s. Lead them in the wisdom of thinking Biblically about all of Life and Learning. Then focus on what He has put in you, so your children can follow you as you follow Christ.

That’s all that He asks of us. How could anyone else ask anything more? If they do, it only puts bondage on us that is not of God. Live in God’s design, which may be heavily weighted, not balanced as the world sees it. But your “weighted” education will be one full of grace that gives you “good success”, fruitfulness and fulfillment as your family walks in His design for their lives.

 

Book Learnin’

The United States has become a nation of trivia seekers. Its government schools boast of the “broad-based” education they provide. In reality this boils down to a cultural intellect that is a mile wide and an inch deep. Many Americans fit the picture. Many others fit a smaller one, and choose to be only an inch wide and an inch deep. One only needs to read the studies and essays to see this trend, The Closing of the American Mind by Allan Bloom, and Dumbing Us Down by John T. Gatto are just two. Or perhaps it would be in the latter class’s league to read the bumper stickers of such, “My kid beat up your honor student.” What a testimony. As David Barton, of WallBuilders, once proclaimed at a conference of his that we went to, after giving us the latest statistics showing the United States’ continuing decline in education, as emphasis is shifted in government schools from academics to “self-esteem”, “American’s may not know much, but they sure are proud of it.”

In this “information age” when our “collective” knowledge has and is increasing at rapid fire rates, yes mom, there are going to be major “gaps” no matter where your child attends school; its just a matter of who’s choosing what those gaps should be. In the late 1900’s knowledge doubled in just a few years, whereas this amount of increase took 500 years in times past. We have the opportunity to learn so much yet many people are choosing to learn so little, just enough to get a job and get by; the rest of their brains are filled with trivial trivia. They know much that means nothing and matters not. Besides, they pseudo-reason, it is trivia that can earn them a million dollars on game shows. If not, their irrelational, dysfunctional, shallow lives could always be the impetus for a new “reality” show. Is this really the culture our society wants to live, and worse yet, wants to pass on to their children?!

Many of us home educate, whether it be our primary reason or a secondary one, because we are among those that see this trend in our nation and desire better for our children – for the future of our country. Whether we are among those that have always pressed higher (deeper) than the above shallowness, or have been there and have come or are coming out of it, we must be careful that our children don’t fall into the same trivial trap.

The internet has been a huge blessing and curse to our society. It has made an overwhelming abundance of information available to us at our fingertips, for FREE! It has also made an overwhelming abundance of perversity and nuisance available. But this isn’t about taking care to protect your children from internet profane sites, or disgusting ads – although I pray you do.

I see another trend in the internet that can be a much more subtle trap, one based upon the first problem I mentioned, a shallow education. Our children could learn so much from the internet, but much of it would be the snippets, perhaps greater stuff than the worthless trivia, but still little pre-digested bits. A little of this, a little of that – snacks rather than full course meals. It is hard to put together a coherent, comprehensive understanding from tidbits; let alone develop a consistent viewpoint.

The same problem found from reading digested, condensed versions, and textbook snippets is found from reading internet digested snippets. Although in-depth information can be found on the internet, I will be so bold as to stand my L.E.D. ground that Real Learning comes from Real Books. An education that is not shallow comes from reading in-depth books. Not even just whole Real Books themselves, but multiple (that is more than one) whole books on the subject, giving us more than one full viewpoint to think upon, reason through, and respond to, to formulate our own thought out, consistent, reasonable viewpoint about – in many areas of life.

Nothing provides Real Learning better than Real Resources. Admittedly, closed in with books alone can create an intelligent but un-relational person. But an education of combined Real Resources can create a rich, deep, “whole” person. Real Resources include: Real People, people who have an interest and passion for something worthwhile and are willing and able to share it; Real Places, places of interest and value that add depth to our lives, not just entertainment; Real Experiences, doing things that have meaning and are productive and creative (not mindless a-musement); and of course, Real Books, the literature, biographies, historical narratives, journals of lives and nature, the “Mashal” as our Lord Jesus taught – parables, proverbs, and metaphors; stories of interest, written by authors of passion, that draw us in, and while telling the story teach us the lessons of life and the way of living, and give us an education of depth. From there we can expand it as broad as we desire, because “of the making of books there is no end.” After all, we live in the information age.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 4

This is Part 4, the last, in a series.

This, Part 4 of this article, will Summarize what the previous Parts have presented – in proper order – the answer to 3 questions that make up the primary question, “How do I homeschool my children?” The answers were general for a total beginner to home education, rather than specifically on Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. We hope though that you will see how Lifestyle Education through Discpleship provides Freedom & Simplicity for an excellent Christian education, by uniting the best ideas from the other philosophies out there.

On to the Summary – “How should I homeschool my children?”:

1. Answer the question “WHY should I educate my children at home?” Develop the conviction that home education is the proper education for your children. You may already have at least a “preference” for home education, but perhaps you don’t have strong convictions that this is definitely what you are to do. Guidance in answering this question is covered in this Part 3. If you choose only one resource to read, giving strong reasons for Christian parents to follow God’s commands to give their children a strong Christian Education, rather than an government education that is specifically educating the children in it AGAINST Christianity, choose **”Excused Absence” by Douglas Wilson. If you have no Biblical reasons for home educating, perhaps you have academic or social/moral reasons which can be found in the other resources in Part 3. If you have no particular reasons, rather than you thought you’d give it a try, or you or your child don’t like their teacher, my posts and website are probably unhelpful to you.

2. Answer the question “What are my goals in home educating my children?” This will determine the answer to “HOW should I educate my children?”, which will narrow the choices of “WHAT resources should I use to educate my children?” Guidance in answering these questions are covered in Part 2 of this article. Though each family has a personal “philosophy of education” (beliefs of what makes a good education), this philosophy is formed, or reformed, by the books they read and speakers they listen to. Each of the styles of education presented in Part 2 have differing goals, methods, and resources to accomplish these. Since most people have not given a whole lot of thought to what their personal philosophy of education is, it will take time to develop, and will slowly become more defined. Research the websites and resources given. Part 2 gives a lengthy description with plenty of websites for you to check out. For your ONE, quick and easy resource order our “Introduction to Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” tape that gives a brief overview of the various styles or come to one of our Freedom & Simplicity seminars. We hope that you will choose to follow a L.E.D. approach (completely tailored to your own family), but if not check out one of the other curricula programs listed in Part 2.

As a quick overview of the styles:
Unschooling/Delight Directed – Strengths: utilizes the child’s interests in giving him a tailor made education for God’s design for his life. Weaknesses: is child led, not “family friendly” (for family unity), can be very incomplete for the child’s future need if totally directed by the child’s interests, and his own choice of inferior books.

Unit Studies – Strengths: focused topics, family friendly, integrated subjects. Weaknesses: forced integration, sometimes shallowness of actual learning of the topic as you get wrapped up in the “fun” activities that aren’t very relevant, or shallow topics themselves taking the place of life-important topics.

Living Books/Literature based/Classical – Strengths: an “excellent” education, that of stretching the mind, encouraging it to think and grow. Resources are interesting and relational stories that are remembered, not just trivial bits of information to memorize. Weaknesses: many times not family friendly (individual grade levels used), can be over rigorous for real life family usage, causing real kid burn out, possibility of creating an intellectualism of “knowledge that puffs up.”

Discipleship/Christian Worldview: Strengths: a truly Biblical Education of excellence, that is based on the Spirit and nourishes/transforms the soul. Weaknesses: What weaknesses? Well, I suppose. To disciple (lead) someone you must be going somewhere worthwhile. This requires that for you to be a leader, you must first be a learner yourself. And for you to lead someone to Jesus, Jesus must be leading you. Although this is an education of excellence, it need not be a “burn out” style of education, as He promises those that follow Him and His ways His rest.

We believe that Lifestyle Education through Discipleship, by incorporating the strengths of each of the above styles into the excellence of a Discipleship/Worldview education, provides the best of all educational philosophies. It provides a style that is based on true Wisdom, that begins with the Fear of the Lord; an education of Freedom & Simplicity that is family friendly and prevents burn-out; that utilizes real, interesting, memorable resources of excellent quality and truth, and natural, gentle methods of learning to teach focused topics, integrated across the “subjects”.

Once you choose the STYLE you will use, you will have narrowed the choices of resources considerably, but you will still have possibly thousands of choices within your chosen style.

3. Once you’ve determined WHY you are going to home educate and HOW you are going to do it, find out what your state laws are for reporting your home education. All states information here:
http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp
NE information and links to the state’s forms here: http://nchea.org

See, just 3 easy steps for the complete novice to get started in home education :- )

P.S. Check our Resources & Recommendations pages for resources listed here.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 3

This is Part 3 in a series.

This post, Part 3 of Off to a Home Ed Start, concludes the answering of our 3 questions – in reverse order. Part 4 will summarize, in proper order, “How do I start homeschooling?”

The following offers a good place to start answering this “Question #3”, that is really the first question to answer. The first part of “What else do I need to know to begin homeschooling?” should really start to be answered by asking, “WHY should you teach your children at home?” These books, available from Me and My House ministries, answer that question. I see 3 primary categories of reasons – Biblical, academic, and social. These books explain them well.

**”Excused Absence: Should Christian Kids Leave Public Schools?” by Douglas Wilson – is the most recent of these books, and perhaps the hardest hitting from a Biblical standpoint. As Marlin Detweiler from Veritas Press put it, “In this tiny volume, Doug Wilson makes the case for Christian education so strongly that, aside from willful disobedience to God’s Word, Christian parents have no reason to continue educating their children in officially agnostic public schools.” The case Mr. Wilson presents is not specifically for home education but for strong “distinctively Christian schools or home schools.” If you are looking for a “soft, nice, relativistic, make you feel good about doing whatever” book, this is NOT it.

**”Homeschooling: the Right Choice” by Christopher Klicka – of the Home School Legal Defense Association has been revised and updated for the 21st Century. Mr. Klicka points out the failure of public education in 3 critical areas – academic, moral, and philosophical, as well as the “rising hope of home schooling”.

**”Let Us Highly Resolve” by David Quine – (listed in Part 2) not specifically about “leaving public schools”, but rather about resolving to equip our children to live strong Christian lives in the 21st Century.

Gregg Harris’s **”Basic Homeschooling Workshop” tapes and **”Advanced Homeschooling Workshop” tapes were the introduction that “sold us” on not just removing our children from the negative influence of public schools, but to being sold out on HOME education. Mr. Harris’s book **”The Christian Home School” is also available.

**”Government Nannies: The Cradle-to-Grave Agenda of Goals 2000 & Outcome Based Education” by Cathy Duffy – more on the agenda of the NEA and government schools.

Marshall Foster’s, and other previously mentioned recommended authors and resources also contain much information that helps answer this question.

A few other books (that are not available through us) that may also be helpful. “Why So Many Christians are Going Home to School” by Ellyn Davis – is an easy, quick read on some of the problems of institutionalized learning. It was the first book of this kind we read, and although we had deep convictions for home educating, it pointed out many reasons we hadn’t thought of.

“Is Public Education Necessary?” by Samuel Blumenfeld – presents the myths that nearly all of us have/had bought about public education and its history. Probably the grand-daddy of them all.

“Who Owns the Children” by Blair Adams and Joel Stein – is another excellent book dispelling those myths that it is in our children’s best interest (and the state’s responsibility and right) for the state to educate our children. Long and detailed.

“Dumbing Us Down” by John Taylor Gatto (Also the “Underground History of American Education”) – an “insider” of public education, award winning teacher who left the system and now exposes and speaks out against it. Long, detailed book.

There are many other excellent books on this topic, many of them from the early days of the modern home education movement, that forged the way and provided the foundation for us, of those homeschool pioneers we are all indebted to. A few of those titles, that are worthy inclusions if you are studying the history of government/public education and the rise of Christian home education are:
“Child Abuse in the Classroom” by Phyllis Schaffly
“The Bible, Homeschooling, and the Law” by Karl Reed
“The Day they Padlocked the Church” by H. Edward Rowe

I could go on and on, but I’m writing an article not a book. For one more article on “Why Homeschool?” read our back post entitled:
“thoughts on public school”, Sept. 21, 2002.

Go to Part 4.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 2

This post contains Part 2 in a series. 

This post continues answering the question, “How do I start homeschooling?” which I’ve broken down into 3 questions. “What does my state require?” and “Where do I get my curriculum?” were covered in Part 1 of this article/series of posts. (This post also will continue to answer the “Where” question.) My final question, which is actually the most important and first one you need to consider is, “What else do I need to know to begin homeschooling?”. The answer to that question is a question to you. “What are YOUR goals in home education?” “WHY are you home schooling?” Your goals will determine the methods and the resources (“curriculum”) you use. Below is an introduction to styles of home education using “real books”; other information on various educational approaches is on our “Introduction to Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” audio. And of course, much more on the method and resources we’ve chosen to base Lifestyle Education through Discipleship™ on is on our website, in our seminar (see below), through this blog – and of course in our publications.

Lifestyle Education through Discipleship combines the best, most family friendly aspects of many of the “Real Books” types of philosophies/methods listed below, for a Christian Worldview education of excellence in Freedom & Simplicity. You may wonder why books on various styles of home education are available from Me and My House ministries when we have our “own” Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. Because L.E.D. utilizes aspects from varying philosophies, we believe it is helpful to understand those philosophies themselves, that you also can glean from them what is best, to design the unique curriculum God desires for your family. There are a very few actual curricula that we make available to you, not as our personal “ideal” recommendations, but for those that choose to stay with a specific style in more purity; for those that feel they need a transitionary “published curriculum” to ease them into designing their own personal L.E.D. for their own unique family, through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and the discipleship of Me and My House.

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In Part 1 I explained that there is no “set” curriculum, and your answers to my third question will help determine what TYPE/STYLE of curriculum is right for your family. I’ve already covered Textbooks/Workbooks, and won’t give any further explanation of its”philosophy”. In this post I will cover different types of philosophies and methods that utilize “Real Books” for their curriculum and some of the prominent curricula available that utilize those methods. The generalizations made here may not apply to all that follow a certain method. They are just that, generalizations. But, for the sake of this being an “article” not a “book”, and because the purpose is to quickly open the eyes of a beginning home educator to “what is out there”, these descriptions need to be brief – though to cover just what we do here this post is lengthy. Therefore, this won’t include even all TYPES/STYLES of “real books” educational ideas – just a few prominent ones, let alone all resources and their providers – which could not be done even in a book. But it should give you some ideas of where to begin to look, once you’ve decided what you’re looking for. It begins your research for you. And in the vast amount of material available to home educators today, this “narrowing the field” is a great start to helping decide your curriculum. Also, you need to realize that there is much “cross-over” – many curricula incorporate one than one type/style of education. Again, these categorizations are generalizations.

Obviously, we prefer and recommend the philosophy and methods of Lifestyle Education through Discipleship, but we give these others so you will have an idea of what is out there, and also so you will see how L.E.D. incorporates various aspects from most of them. ** items are available through Me and My House ministries.

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a) UNSCHOOLING or “DELIGHT DIRECTED”
Unschooling or delight directed learning is a “child led” education, focusing on the interests of the child. Usually the “real books” and resources utilized in this type of education are whatever the child finds in the library or on the internet or perhaps his family’s library that is of interest to him. Obviously, there is no written curriculum or book list for this. It flows as the child’s interests come and go, in whatever the topic may be – not just “recognized” school “subjects”. Some parents help guide the child into turning these interests into a type of Unit Study (see below). “Relaxed Home School” by Mary Hood gives a good overview of this style of education.

Aspects of Delight Directed education, that are present in Lifestyle Education through Discipleship are, that a child’s interests and learning styles/abilities should be taken into consideration when planning his curriculum. Those interests are God-given and indicators of God’s design for his future. However, this can be done without sacrificing the more “family friendly” methods of other styles. And we do not agree with the philosophy that a child can appropriately direct his own education. Proverbs tells us that a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. And Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and Ephesians instruct us to diligently teach our children, guiding and directing their education.

Before I move on to the next styles, I want to give you a brief introduction to two names you will see repeatedly below. 2 women have greatly influenced the usage of “Real Books” in education – Charlotte Mason and Ruth Beechick. Charlotte Mason was an educator in England in the late 1800’s who “believed that children needed to experience and observe creation, live full lives, and feed their minds and hearts on lofty ideas and Living Books, not twaddle.” Dr. Ruth Beechick is a current proponent of home education whose philosophy is very similar to Miss Mason’s. She helps parents to teach the basics (reading, writing, and arithmetic) in “a very simple straightforward method and use Living Books for everything else.” The methods used are gentle, natural, and time proven. The teachings of these two have greatly influenced our own L.E.D., as well as many of the programs listed below.

b) UNIT STUDIES
Unit Studies are catching on even in institutional classrooms, as a more effective way to teach. Unit studies integrate subjects through the study of a certain topic, usually including some hands-on experiences. Unit Studies can be parent designed (meaning YOU make them up for your family) or a “written program” you purchase (probably written by another home school mom).

Because a Unit Study can be based on virtually ANY topic, there is a wide difference in published Unit Studies, and their philosophies and differences. Some, NOT ALL, Unit Study programs can be perceived as labor intensive for mom. Most are multi-level, rather than individual grade-level based, meaning your whole family is learning together – everyone learning the same topic, each on their own level. This makes them much more family friendly than textbooks/workbooks or delight directed learning. Mom is not forced to keep up with the many different subjects and topics of many different grade levels. Many of the “full curriculum” Unit Studies (as opposed to just individual units) are based on a 4 year rotation plan, and cover all topics in all subjects within that rotation. There are no specific resources listed here on learning about the “Unit Study” method in general. The resources listed below are first – resources for helping you design your own Unit Studies, and second – “published” Unit Study curricula.

“Published” Unit Studies give recommended book lists of “real books” to read, to go along with the activities/assignments (and any background information or other “lesson”) they suggest. Some list mainly books you can find at your public library and note that you can substitute any book your library has. Others list (and possibly include) books that would be harder to find in your public library, but are more assuring of providing appropriate content than just choosing any library book on the topic. The descriptions of these Unit Studies resources is a little more detailed, because we have used or thoroughly researched them. My opinion is sometimes included, although they still aren’t “our recommended choice” of method/philosophy.

**”Unit Studies Made Easy” – (An updated and expanded version of “How to Create a Unit Study” and Valerie’s other 3 “unit study” books) – http://www.valeriebendt.com/unit_studies_made_easy.asp – is a guide to creating your own unit studies just for your family. Mrs. Bendt helps you create literature based unit studies. Many of her educational ideas are based on Charlotte Mason’s and Ruth Beechick’s philosophies.

**”Design-A-Study” guides by Kathryn Stout – http://designastudy.com/ – help you design your own studies/curriculum in most “subjects”. They can be helpful guides for those just starting out on their own.

We have used both of these sets of resources (Bendt’s previous edition) in the past, when we were beginning to form our own “style” and designing our own Unit Studies. They may be helpful, but are not
necessary for those following the Lifestyle Education through
Discipleship methods.

Below (toward the end of this post) you will find a couple of books
listed that are “books of books”, that can help you choose books to use your own Unit Studies or ANY type of study.

A few of the most popular Unit Study programs are:
“KONOS” – http://konos.com/ – is a more “hands-on” activities oriented Unit Study program, that covers all grades up to 8th, in 3 Volumes covering 2.5 years each. Separate KONOS “History of the World” is available for high school students to complete through independant study. KONOS is especially good if you have active boys/children that like to DO things to learn. The Units are based on Character traits, and cover “everything”, including writing, except no upper level grammar instruction. Original KONOS relies on library books or getting your own, the newer “KONOS In a Box” includes books, and a more structured, detailed layout. We loved many aspects of KONOS (original). Drawbacks, IMO! – too much activity oriented for ME. Too much time at the library and hunting down good appropriate books, and planning and completing “fun” but not necessarily directly educational activities.

“Weaver” – http://www.aop.com (This is the Alpha Omega website, you’ll have to click through to “Weaver”) – More structured, workpage, grade level oriented assignments. It has a supplement to add high school to it. Good if you are transitioning from textbooks/workbooks and your kids learn well that way. Not to say there aren’t activities but it is more seatwork oriented. Units are Bible based, chronological through the Bible, but the program covers “everything” including writing. This was our first non-text/workbook curriculum. I really liked the Bible base, and everyone learning the same topics together. It was probably the beginning of the development of our philosophy away from “school at home”. Drawbacks, IMO! – too “schoolish”, individual grade level assignments, and slow moving.

“Tapestry of Grace” – http://www.tapestryofgrace.com/ – is Biblical Worldview based, utilizing classic books of Western Civilization. It covers all grades through high school. Progresses chronologically through history. Science is not included, but history of science is intertwined. Writing program is integrated.

**”Heart of Wisdom” – http://heartofwisdom.com/ – is Bible based, utilizing Charlotte Mason type methods (living books, copywork, narrating and notebooking). It’s written for grades 4-12, but can also be used for K-3, (I heard that add ons for K-3 are being added.) It includes Bible study, chronological history, and days of creation order for science. There are three tracks of units – History, Science, and adds on Life Skills for High school. The studies are Internet linked, and it also builds a good home library of real books. This is the Unit Study that most lines up with our philosophy and style, and what we would possibly use if we went back to published unit studies. Drawback – only year one currently available.

“Far Above Rubies” & “Blessed is the Man” – publisher/supplier not online – are gender specific unit studies for high school students. We used these when they first came out, when our oldest was in high school because they integrated all the books we wanted her to read anyhow. They are based on Scripture – girls, Proverbs 31:10-31, and boys, Psalm 1. They are very “Christian life” prepatory. They may be considered too “Conservative Christian” for some, but the author does not make your decisions about these issues for you, she urges you to research and come to your own conclusions. But she does present issues that you may not otherwise consider. Like I mentioned, what we loved most about this curriculum is it used all the books we had already determined we wanted our daughters to read, by integrating them into a full curriculum. What I didn’t like was that nothing was really presented in a systematic fashion, “line upon line”. I felt some “subjects” weren’t getting the thoroughness of systematic study that they needed at a high school level.

There are many other Unit Studies programs available. Some are full programs integrating all subjects, covering “everything your child needs” K-12. Others are single units, covering one topic, utilizing a few of the subjects (sometimes just history or science and writing) and applicable for only 1 or 2 “grade levels”.

The aspects of Unit Studies that Lifestyle Education through Discipleship incorporates are: focused topics of study (providing greater depth of understanding); family study (everyone learning the same topics together); integrated subjects (where applicable – this is one “negative” about many published “full-curriculum” Unit Studies, they tend to “force” integration where it doesn’t naturally fit, and you scratch your head and say “What does this have to do with that?” It’s a stretch.)

c) “LIVING BOOKS”/ LITERATURE BASED/CLASSICAL
This has possibly become the largest “new”/old method and philosophy, or at least the fastest growing. There is a lot of variation within this category, but the primary unifying factor is that the curriculum is not based on a textbook nor a “unit” integrating all subjects into a certain “topic”, but rather on reading GREAT real literature. Within this category is the GREAT BOOKS or CLASSICAL method, the CHARLOTTE MASON “LIVING BOOKS” method, as well as other methods utilizing “Classical Literature” or other Living Books as their base. This method, and the one below, “DISCIPLESHIP/ CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW” are probably the most “picky” in the actual resources they utilize. Though the Classical and Living Books styles utilize only very well written, “excellent” books, not “dumbed down” insignificant “twaddle”, their choices do not always present an accurate Christian Worldview.

Charlotte Mason methods utilize an environment of excellence, – in literature, music, art, languages, nature – and gentle, natural methods – such as narration, copywork, dictation, and notebooking – to instill a love for learning. Classical methods utilize the “Trivium”, giving the tools for learning, logic (proper thinking), and rhetoric (debate).

This type of curriculum, like unit studies, can be parent directed or a “written program” by others. It is “literature” based (as opposed to “activity” based) and generally is not as interested in integrating the subjects as Unit Studies, and is usually more “grade level” oriented.

These resources explain the philosophies and methods of Charlotte Mason, Ruth Beechick, and Classical education:
**”For the Children’s Sake: Foundations of Education for Home & School” by Susan Schaeffer McCauley – Charlotte Mason style.

**”A Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on The Gentle Art of Learning” by Karen Andreola – Mrs. Andreola’s and Mrs. McCauley’s books are foundational understanding of Charlotte Mason’s ideas. Of course, you can also read Charlotte Mason’s own works, but some find them too long and detailed for most modern readers who have not had an excellent literary education themselves.

**”A Charlotte Mason Primer” (and other works) by Cindy Rushton – a short, easy read on the basics of the Charlotte Mason method.

**”The Three R’s” series by Ruth Beechick
**”How to Teach Your Child Successfully” by Ruth Beechick – two very important guides for getting started in providing a “real books” education for your children.

**”Teaching the Trivium: Christian Homeschooling in a Classical Style”
by Harvey & Laurie Bluedorn of Trivium Pursuit – http://triviumpursuit.com/ – understanding Classical Education from a Christian viewpoint. We met them many years ago as side-by-side vendors at many conventions and curriculum fairs, as well as had them come to North Platte to speak.

The Well Trained Mind – http://www.welltrainedmind.com/ – is a
currently very popular book (but not one we recommend) on the classical method of home education.

A few LIVING BOOKS/LITERATURE based/CLASSICAL programs are:
“Ambleside Online” – http://amblesideonline.homestead.com/index.html – is a free online curriculum for individual grades k-6 that utilizes Charlotte Mason methods.

“Living Lessons” – http://www.bereanbookshelf.com/ – Here’s a more
specific link to the Living Lessons pages:
http://www.bereanbookshelf.com/Living%20Lessons%20-%20Home%20Page.htm – from Berean Bookshelf – a classic literature based curriculum, with a strong Christian Worldview and critical thinking emphasis for individual grades pre k-12. Booklist not available online, but publishers of the books used are listed. No questionable books included, some textbooks used.

Tanglewood – http://www.tanglewoodeducation.com/index.htm – a classical and Charlotte Mason homeschool designed curriculum for individual grades k-8. Available in “kits” or “create your own curriculum” format.

Great Books Academy – http://www.greatbooksacademy.org/ – Classical, liberal arts program for individual grades nursery-12.

Veritas Press – http://www.veritaspress.com – is “a full service curriculum provider with a classical specialization”. Veritas Press has written many of its own classical curriculum programs.

Lifestyle Education through Discipleship utilizes Living Books and an environment of excellence and gentle, natural learning methods to instill a delight in learning, narration, copywork, dictation, and notebooking (like Charlotte Mason), and emphasizes “right reasoning” and the ability to communicate it effectively (logic and rhetoric) and also divides learning into 3 Seasons (like the Classical method, but not completely the way they do).

d) DISCIPLESHIP or CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW
The Discipleship and Christian Worldview philosophies generally go hand in hand. These are methods that concentrate on providing a thoroughly Christian education as directed by God in Deuteronomy 6:7, Isaiah 54:13, and other places in Scripture. The examples given here utilize “real books” of high caliber/excellence (as opposed to “twaddle”) just like the Living Books and Classical methods do, but the resources for these methods are decidedly by those with a Christian Worldview (or for older students, to contrast with the Christian Worldview through the guidance of the “curriculum”). Many Discipleship/Christian Worldview curricula also utilize aspects of “Classical” education.

The Discipleship aspect of these styles is in the fact that the children are learning step-by-step through the guidance of the parent, as indicated in Deut. 6:7. Lifestyle Education through Discipleship is primarily a Discipleship/Worldview philosophy, which has also incorporated many valuable aspects from other philosophies/methods that make home education in “Freedom & Simplicity” a reality.

The Principle Approach is a Discipleship/Worldview method that teaches principles of reflective thinking and reasoning that produce a Christian Worldview. This is truly a method of excellence with a strong Biblical Worldview. In its purity, it is also an individual grade level, individual subjects curriculum to be taught by a “Master Teacher”. IOW, the parents become Master Teachers, to teach their students. We agree this is the ultimate in discipleship, but believe it is not practically feasible for full time parents of many children of many differing ages to become Master Teachers of every subject before they begin home educating. The Principle Approach utilizes “4 R-ing” to study a topic (Research, Reason, Relate, and Record, and “notebooking”, a truly excellent method of learning, also used by the “teacher” as she learns to teach the topic.

These resources explain the philosophies and methods of education based on DISCIPLESHIP and CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW:
**”Homeschool vs. Discipleship” (and others) by Jonathan Lindvall, – http://www.boldchristianliving.com/ – a Christian homeschool speaker and dad. Spending time with Mr. Lindvall through conventions, his seminars, and hosting his seminar was very influential to us in the area of the philosophy of Discipleship Education. Tapes and videos
from his seminars and workshops are available.

**”Homeschooling from a Biblical Worldview” by Israel Wayne – http://www.biblical-worldview.com/ – a good introduction to this philosophy.

**”Let Us Highly Resolve” (and others) by David Quine. (See “Starting Points” below.)

Marshall Foster of the Mayflower Institute – http://www.mayflowerinstitute.com – for restoring Christian families, and in turn our nation, to our Christian worldview heritage – with his “king size bed” approach to home education greatly influenced us. The
philosophy of the “king size bed” approach is basically this, the
family gathering together daily for a time of the parents sharing –
discipling in – the ways of God. Also that 80% of education has nothing to do with your “curriculum” that you use during “school hours”, but rather is what you do all day long with your children by your side. In addition to the time we spent with him at conventions, and his workshops there, his tape series “World Changers” and “Battle for the 21st Century” are among our favorites. (See also his Worldview resource below.) Mr. Foster’s views align with the Principle Approach. (Mr. Foster’s resources are recommended but not available through Me
and My House ministries.)

Jeff Myers of the Myers Institute – http://myersinstitute.com – is also a speaker/educator on Biblical Worldview and communication whose workshops and tapes are excellent in this area. (Mr. Myers’ resources are recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

“Come Let Us Reason” by Kris Bayer is a great overview of the Principle Approach, in an easy to understand way for homeschooling families to use. Written by a friend of mine. (Mrs. Bayer’s book is recommended but not available from Me and My House.)

**”A Guide to American Christian Education for the Home” is THE book on learning about the Principle Approach and how to implement it – big and detailed.

All the resources listed in this section (above) are recommended by Me and My House ministries.

A few DISCIPLESHIP/WORLDVIEW programs are:
**”Starting Points” and “Worldviews of the Western World” – from Cornerstone Curriculum – http://cornerstonecurriculum.com – Worldviews… is a Christian classical three-year program (for use by those in grades 8-12) that is “built largely around the works of Francis Schaeffer. Students still read Homer, Socrates, and Machiavelli. But these are balanced not only by Schaeffer’s works, but also by St. Augustine, Luther, and Calvin.” Starting Points is a one year Introductory Course to World Views. Math, Science, Art, and Music programs also available from Cornerstone Curriculum.

Foundation for American Christian Education – http://face.net/
publishes classical education materials based on the Principle
Approach. The “Noah Plan” is FACE’s complete curriculum. Subject specific Curriculum Guides and many other recommended resources are also available.

**”Understanding the Times” by David Noebel
**”Thinking Like a Christian” by David Noebel
“Christian Home Learning Guide” by Marshall Foster
are all good Biblical Worldview curricula. (The “Christian Home Learning Guide” is recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

The “PEERS” test from Nehemiah Institute – http://www.nehemiahinstitute.com/ – is an excellent assessment of your student’s (and your!) worldview. They also provide worldview training. (The “PEERS” test is recommended but not available through Me and My House ministries.)

“Far Above Rubies” and “Blessed is the Man” unit studies listed above are also very discipleship oriented and Christian Worldview based.

Our Lifestyle Education through Discipleship fits best into the DISCIPLESHIP/CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW style, (incorporating aspects of Unit Studies and Living Books). We are NOT grade level oriented and we do integrate the subjects as much as is natural (like Unit Studies). (However, we don’t believe in forcing every subject into every topical study just because it is “required”.) We do utilize only “excellent” literature (no twaddle), the importance of “right reasoning” (logic), excellence in environment (the liberal arts), and many gentle, natural methods (like Classical and Charlotte Mason, Living Books styles.) We utilize much of the Principle Approach’s study methods and notebooking, as ADAPTED for use in the multi-level homeschool FAMILY setting. We also incorporate the “Better Late than Early” philosophy of Raymond Moore (as mentioned below.)

Although we do not publish a “curriculum”, you can read about the Freedom & Simplicity of designing your own based on “Real Books” on our website or attend our “Freedom & Simplicity” seminar or utilize our other L.E.D. resources. Wisdom’s 7 Pillars framework is a broad overview of Lifestyle Education through Discipleship based on “Real Books/Resources” from Me and My House.

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Again, we are not specifically recommending all the particular programs listed above, except for Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. The others are listed as good examples of these types of curricula.

Here’s a few resources for helping you implement any of the “Real
Books” styles:

**”Let the Authors Speak” by Carolyn Hatcher – a “book of books” – listing good “real books” and their time and place setting, to help you choose appropriate books to study, as you travel through God’s HisStory throughout the “time and space” of the earth. We can’t vouch for the worthiness of ALL the books listed in this resource.

**”Books Children Love” by Elizabeth Wilson – another “book of books”, this one giving more detailed decriptions of the books.

**”Encyclopedia of Bible Truths: for School Subjects” by Ruth Haycock – Scriptures categorized and outlined for use in teaching from a Biblical Worldview. Very helpful for incorporating a Biblical Worldview/Priniciple Approach in your studies of any style and highly recommended.

Other resources and speakers that greatly influenced us and L.E.D. are:
**”Better Late Than Early” by Raymond Moore – Dr. Moore is considered the father of the modern home education “movement”. It was Dr. Moore’s research for the US government, that brought to light the fact that the institutional school setting and its methods are not the best way for children to learn. Dr. Moore’s conclusions, among other things, indicate that it is best for children (up to 10 or 12 years old) to learn informally, without being “pushed”. Our L.E.D. philosophy incorporates Dr. Moore’s ideas.

“Wisdom’s Children” by Blair Adams and Joel Stein
“Far Above Rubies” by David Mulligan
These 2 books were very instrumental in formulating our L.E.D. philosophy. They build a Christian educational philosophy on the foundation of Knowledge, Understanding, and Wisdom. We also learned of Marilyn Howshall’s “Wisdom’s Way of Learning” along the way, which includes several similar elements, such as integrating Principle Approach and Classical methods with relaxed, real life.

Part 3 of this post will answer probably the most important aspect of this question, “WHY should I teach my children at home?” Part 4 will summarize the first 3 Parts of this article.

** items are available though us.

 

Off to a Home Ed Start – Part 1

Much of what the articles on this site contain is learning how to give our children a “Lifestyle Education through Discipleship” – how to home educate in this specific way, which is very “non-conforming” to the ways of institutionalized, government education. But many times I get asked a much more basic question, where to start home education AT ALL!

Most of you on this list are probably already home educating your
children, and are not asking this particular question anymore. Some of
you aren’t yet, and are just “looking into it,” desperately seeking
answers to this question. Those that are already home educating
probably get asked the questions these next few posts will cover.
Rather than saying, “Call Mrs. Z, our support group leader,” perhaps
you can glean from these posts and pass the info on.

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So you are interested in homeschooling your child? More than likely
you have asked, or want to ask, if you could just find someone to ask,
“How do I homeschool?” Let me tell you, that’s an impossible question
to answer, without asking you many, many questions in return. It is
also not a question that can be answered in 5 minutes, or an hour, or
even in an all day seminar or lengthy article.

But let me use this article to attempt to point you toward some
direction that may help you BEGIN to answer that question. Actually
only YOU can answer that question for yourself/ your family – but not
until you answer many other questions. Perhaps your question is better
rephrased, “How or where to I begin to learn about homeschooling?”

There are 3 main things you are probably asking with the question, “How
do I start homeschooling?” They are: “What does my state require?”
“Where do I get my curriculum?” “What else do I need to know to get
started?” Some parents may not even include the last question, but I
consider it the most important and by far the most extensive. In fact,
I consider the order of these 3 to be in the opposite order as I’ve
listed them above. I can give you a quick answer to finding your
state’s legal “requirements”. I can give you a list of websites or
addresses of curriculum providers, but it would be FAR from exhaustive.
(Actually, I will only give you a few for each of a few different types
of curricula.) There are many thousands, I’m sure. It is an area that
has virtually exploded in the last 10 years or so. But to know which
of these thousands to choose from, that will be the right choice for
your family, will take careful exploration, time, research and prayer
to answer the last question in the above list.
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#1) Again, I do not consider this to be the most important, nor the
first thing you need to know about home education, but it’s the one
most people want the answer to first. “What does my state require?”
People are so used to the government or other “experts” telling them
what they “need” or “have” to do, that they immediately want to know
what the state says they have to do. This is the first misconception
many have, and they feel more obligation to what the state “requires”
for education than what God does. The truth is God gave your children
to YOU, not the state to raise and educate. The state has no valid
authority in education. But since this is an easy enough question to
answer, and probably the first you thought of, I will answer it first.

a) WHERE TO FIND OUT THE HOMESCHOOL LAW FOR ANY STATE –
Home School Legal Defense Association – http://hslda.org/ is a great
organization for home educating parents to join, and has information on
each state’s home school laws on their website. Go to this page, and
click on your state. http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp

b) WHERE TO GET INFORMATION AND THE NECESSARY FORMS FOR NEBRASKA –
For more info on home education in NE, go to the Nebraska Christian
Home Educators Association (our state homeschool organization) website:
http://nchea.org/ There is a link to the Nebraska Department of
Education website where you can print out the law and the forms.

c) BASIC OVERVIEW OF NE HOMESCHOOL LAW – in layman’s terms – IOW, you need to read over the actual law before you file, but these are the
basics of what you need to do. Home School Legal Defense Association
gives a “legal analysis” at their website.
http://me-and-my-house/led-nelaw.htm

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#2) Where do I get my curriculum?
A second, major general misconception, of those new to home education
is that there is some set standard of books to use, information that
needs to be learned, etc. But there is no such thing. God has
certainly not ordained that every child of age X must learn Y material
or they will be “behind”. And neither is there a set governmental
standard, though some are pushing for such. Each district has its own
set of “requirements” and texts and (or not) – but that’s another issue.

But it leads to the answer to this question. It could be any
one of thousands of places. There are other questions YOU need to
answer before YOU answer this one. Here are some popular answers as to
the TYPES of resources you can use, that may or may not work for you.
I only know of resources for Christian textbook/workbook curricula, for
non-Christian resources you will have to do your own research. See
question #3 for help in deciding which of these types of curriculum is
right for your family.

a) TEXTBOOKS/ WORKBOOKS
These are probably the types of curricula you are most familiar with,
more than likely even the ONLY type you know of. They are the type
used in government and most private schools. One text or set of
workbooks for each grade level in each subject. If you plan to return
your child to the “system” very soon, and if it is very important to you
that your child follow the lock-step regimen of a government type of
education, and you want to continue teaching your child in the ways and
methods used by those institutions whether it is the best way for your
child to learn or not, you probably need to look no further than this
category.

Can you tell I don’t think much of this approach? Although I can’t
deny that there can be some good information in these Christian texts,
I do not believe this method is the best way for children to learn or
parents to teach. I have many reasons that I haven’t the time or space
to go into here. But a primary one is this is not a family-friendly
way to fulfill our God-given responsibility to “train up our children”
in the “education and admonition of the Lord.” But for those of you
that prefer to stay on this same path, here are some of the most
popular. These all come from a conservative Christian viewpoint.

ABeka – http://abeka.com/ – Christian grade-level, subject specific
textbooks. Even has an Academy, DVD program where your child would be
enrolled in their school, and they would receive teaching via DVDs, and
the academy would keep records and issue grades.

Bob Jones – http://www.bjup.com – another Christian grade-level,
subject specific textbook curricula. Bob Jones also has a “satellite”
program for distance learning in a “nationwide classroom.”

Alpha Omega – http://aop.com – this company uses “LifePac” worktexts
instead of textbooks. There are generally 10 LifePac workbooks per
subject, per grade-level. Alpha Omega also now carries other
curricula, Switched on Schoolhouse, which is computer-based instead of
textbooks, and Weaver, which is a Unit Study curriculum covered in part
2.

These are 3 of the most popular. There are many, many more.

b) REAL BOOKS – Here I am using this term a little more loosely than I
use it in describing L.E.D.’s 4 Real Resources. Here I am using it in
the context of, as opposed to textbooks. There are 2 (or more) very
different categories of “real books” users. Using “real books” can be
a more loosely structured type of curricula, or VERY structured,
sometimes more rigorous than a textbook approach. There are MANY, MANY
variations of using “real books” for your curriculum. This can be as
unstructured as just checking out library books on any topic you are
interested in or as structured as following a “Classical Curriculum”
based on great classical literature. I will define some of the
differences in the philosophies or “approaches” (thoughts and ideas of
what education should be and what methods should be used) that
determine which way “real books” are used, when I answer the next
question. Also, I cannot give you specifics on “where” to get the
actual plans for using these books (which is all a “curriculum”
actually is – your plan for teaching) – until I answer question #3.
For now I’ll give you a few ideas of the VAST AMOUNT OF PLACES where to
find various types of “real books”.

libraries – your local public library, university library, interlibrary
loan, church library, “friends’ library” 🙂

bookstores – general bookstores, Christian bookstores, “educational”
bookstores (though not as many “real books” at these), used bookstores, online bookstores – check out the Resources and Recommendations on our website, for ordering through CBD at great discounts.

online – the text for many books, especially older “classics” can be
found online. Also much general information about nearly any topic can
be found there.

We don’t generally recommend, this newest type of “curriculum” – the
Internet Hodge-Podge. Granted, there is much information available on
the “information highway”, but indiscriminately forming a curriculum
based on whatever you can find on the web will not give your child a
comprehensive nor cohesive education, just a “hodge-podge” of unrelated
information. There are many different worldviews, biases, and ideas
about education out there. If you utilize “free” curriculum from any
website you can find with information on the topic, your child will
receive a very confusing education. That said, there is much very good
information on the “net”. But you must use much discernment and
discretion in choosing “what” to use, and do much research to find what
is worthy.

Part 2 will answer our 3rd question – and give you an idea of the
different “methods” of home education, that will determine the types of
resources you will use (and the specific places you can find them).
Well, I’ll give you a very brief start on it anyhow.

For more detailed information on the types of curriculum and methods of
teaching, and just plain differing ideas (philosophies) of home
educating, order our workshop audio, “Introduction to L.E.D.

 

The Way of the Fool

Here’s a short rabbit trail – on the way of the fool, discussed in the previous post, following the train of thought of foolishness and education. Not a full thesis on the subject, but just a few thoughts.

Worse than a fool left to his own devises is a fool leading a fool.
God’s Word says, “The fool has said in his heart, “There is no God.”
and “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly.”
Two VERY GOOD and GOD-given reasons
to not send your children to a government/public education institution. Public education has declared
there is no God, not on their property anyhow – even Christian teachers
can’t bring Him there. They must teach the evolution of a world apart
from God. He and faith in Him cannot be expressed as a natural and
important aspect to ALL of Life. You can be a Christian and work or be
trained there, but you must keep religion in a box separated from your
education. When God’s Word tells us that “The Fear of the Lord is the
beginning of knowledge,” and “The Fear of the Lord is the beginning of
Wisdom,” we can easily see that an education that does not “fear the
Lord” is no education at all; not one to be desired, anyhow. Education
apart from God can be nothing but utter foolishness. Why would any
Christian want their children instructed in foolishness? Knowing that
the Bible declares this will be to his ruin?

Giving Thanks

What are you doing on the computer, instead of spending time with your family? OK, perhaps like here, the guys are “bonding” in a quick round of golf and the kids are getting ready to go to Grandmas, so you’re just sneaking in a few moments.

I just wanted to send a quick note to encourage you all to, if you haven’t yet, spend a few minutes relating the Story of Thanksgiving to your children. Let them know this isn’t just turkey and football day. It isn’t a day of gorging themselves, or even just a day to be with relatives. It is a day set apart for expressing our thankfulness to God.

Tell them how the Pilgrims sought religious freedom to not only worship God as set forth in His Word, but to raise their children in an environment conducive to them developing their own rightful walk with the Lord – we must take a stand to follow God no matter where it leads and we must take our children there with us. How many lost their lives, but not their souls, in taking the risk to be trailblazers for those to come after (half of the people on the Mayflower died that first winter) – sometimes the costs are high to be the first one to do what is right, but someone must step out. How God’s provision came from the help of one “outside” (Squanto) – we can’t remain in the huddle of “us 4 and no more”; we must reach out to the world, to those different than us; perhaps God will use them as instrumental in our blessing. How they were thankful in lack as well as in plenty – whether we are abased or abound, God is there and to be praised. How in their preparations of their Feast, their own efforts proved “inadequate” (although God had brought a great harvest, their Feast would not provide for all the extra people that came,) but – God provides above and beyond what we can see, think, or even dream of. We must never trust in our own efforts but always trust in the One who alone is Trustworthy and Faithful.

Tell your children of a country founded on the belief and faith in Yahweh God the Creator and Redeemer, a country fought for and forged on those beliefs. Tell them how it was a President 240-some years later who proclaimed this memorial Feast day begun by those Pilgrims as a National annual Holiday. Tell them how we are Pilgrims sent by God to uphold His truth in this land that has largely forsaken Him.

Above all tell them to give thanks to the Lord for He is good. No matter what they feel they lack, they have so much to be thankful for. Give them each 5 kernals of corn, the daily provisions of the Pilgrims before that harvest came in, and tell them to “Count their blessings, name them one by one. Count their many blessings, see what God has done.” Give thanks to the Lord who satisfies your mouth with good things, as you enjoy the abundance He has provided for you today.

Give thanks to the Lord for the ability to educate our children at home without having to disobey man in order to obey God. Give thanks to our Lord for your husband, for each and every child He has blessed your union with, for extended family, for spiritual family, for friends and neighbors – for relationship is everything. People are the only thing that lasts forever. Cherish each of these and let them know today that you are thankful to God for them. Most of all for Salvation from our sin through the death and resurrection of His very own Son; for Reconciling us to Himself in the most awsome Relationship for Eternity. Halalu Yah!!! Praise Him!

 

Thoughts on “Public” School

I don’t usually talk much about the government schools, because our focus is in doing what God has called us to do. I prefer to talk about what we are doing and why we are doing it, as opposed to what we aren’t in this area.

This article will probably be considered quite strong. I feel very strongly about this. It is not my intention to offend anyone. We do not educate our children at home because of “how bad” the government schools are, but because we have been given a job to do by God. But learning about the government school system (as well as what God has to say) was a part of our realizing what that job is, and why it is so important that we obey Him in this. If reading anything negative about this system offends you, PLEASE don’t read on.

For our new readers, I promise my articles are usually not this “heavy”.

It is only by His grace that I stand at all, and I humbly present the following.


What will become of the “public schools” if all Christians start home educating their families? What will become of the government schools system is exactly what it already is, an anti-God, anti-family, anti-absolutes, amoral, ad infintum … system of passing on that corrupt culture and its values to our nation’s children. It is an unsafe place spiritually, socially, and emotionally, and for many, also physically. I personally see no problem with the schools “not getting enough money” due to lower student numbers. They should need far less money then anyhow. Shouldn’t they? In addition, it is not the responsibility of the government to provide “free education” at the forced expense of all. Already many without children in the system are paying for those that are in the system, those whose children have already completed their education are still paying, those of us with no children in the system are still paying, and the price just keeps getting higher and higher and the results keep getting lower and lower. The system is NOT working (except in the sense of indoctrinating students in anti-God and anti-scriptural philosophies – their true goal). Academic achievement is extremely down (see John Gotto’s book “Dumbing Us Down”). Yet the cost keeps getting higher, even as more and more children leave the system, they just increase our taxes – and keep adding more “provisions” to take more responsibility (authority) away from the parents. (Younger ages, before and after school programs, and more and more and more. It isn’t about literacy – reading, writing, and arithmetic.)

If all that ends up being left is the “rotten kids”, praise God! most parents will have once again taken interest and responsibility for their own children. Then very little money will be needed to finance these schools, right? Well, we all know better than that, as the “rotten” ones always cost the most (and many times get the best benefits – don’t our jail systems prove that?) (It is because we are forced to pay such high taxes to pay for the system, that we can’t afford to offer our own children at home the same “benefits” the government schools can.)

As for the “good” teachers leaving, I think that’s a good point in all of this. The American government school system is a God-less place, a dark place, a very hostile place to Christianity – perhaps a MISSION field for some, a very harsh, and combative mission field – not a place to send our partially trained youngsters alone without our shelter right there over them (more on this later). Even as a mission field for adults there is the problem that it is illegal to evangelize there, but just as Christians go in and evangelize in other “illegal” places, so I have known Christians that feel called into this place as teachers, hoping to make a difference in the lives of these kids whose parents don’t take their own responsibility. These people would not leave because of the “rotten kids”. They are there because of them. They do not believe in the system; they see it for what it is. There is also the problem that their employer is the system. The system is paying them to do a job that will achieve the system’s goals. Yet, as a Christian they cannot do what the system has employed them to do. Yet, on the other hand, as a Christian they are to be loyal to their employer, an impossibility in this situation. Perhaps within certain local jurisdictions, they are able to do what they have been hired to do without violating Biblical principles or God’s mandates. This is a hard one.

Along these lines of Christian children in the system, I really liked the analogy given by someone else on this, that children, like growing plants that are beyond the “2 leaf stage” can be recognized for what they are becoming, but they aren’t bearing fruit yet, they cannot reproduce themselves. Reproduction requires maturity. What a great argument against those that throw their children into this God-less system to be “salt and light”. These children are not mature enough to go into such a hostile battlefield in enemy territory and fight against it. Most of these children with Christian parents are not getting a daily focus on Biblical Christian training at home, certainly not in the same quantity of the opposite they are getting in the system. But even if they are, they are not mature and fully developed – mature fruit is not in their own lives yet, let alone the ability to reproduce it in others. (I will not argue against God, in His own Sovereignty has used kids in government schools to lead others of their friends to the Lord. Yes, it happens, but it is not the norm, and growth and good fruit is not the necessarily the end result.)

I can’t emphasize enough that if people are sending their kids to these schools, it is for the purpose of the children being educated by this system!!! They claim they are sending them in to be “salt and light”, but that isn’t the reason they are there. They are there to receive an education. Then parents get mad that their children receive the education that is offered there – amoral, anti-God, anti-parent, anti-any AUTHORITY and absolutes, anti-family, etc……

How many adult Christians are, in their work place, turning the place upside down through evangelism and Christian discipleship? Yet, that environment – the workplace, is not a place that was formed for shaping the beliefs and teaching the philsophies of life – and we still as mature adult Christians aren’t making vast inroads into the American workplace – evangelizing fathers to put God first, live by Biblical principles, and take repsonsibility for and leadership in their families for Christ; evangelizing mothers, and discipling them to their proper role in the family, and turning the hearts of both moms and dads fully to their children and what is best for the family, not what they WANT to do as individuals.

We are failing in the evangelism of men, the leaders of the family, yet we expect kids to go into an environment that is set up to shape the impressionable minds of children, and to shape them against God, and parents put them in to be “salt and light”? Where is our thinking??!!! Salt cannot preserve something that is already rotten. And our nation’s Christian children are the victims of this illogical thinking. The goal of many of the founders of government education as we know it today was to take away the authority of Christian parents and replace and undermine it with their teaching of secular humanism. The founders of this system were not Godly men. Such men as Horace Mann, John Dewey, G. Stanley Hall had a ungodly agenda, and it is being carried out in the government school system today.

Some recent statistics from Promise Keepers (I’m not sure where the research came from, if it was from Barna research stats – that’s my guess, but I didn’t ask. And I’m not positive of the exact numbers, but these are within the “decade” anyhow.) 60-some percent (or maybe it was higher) of over age 65 Americans consider themselves Christians. 40-some percent of middle aged (I forgot the exact ages), something like 18% of young adults, and only 6% of those aged 6- 18!!! This tells me that Christian parents are not doing a good job of passing on their faith to their kids, and I fully believe that the anti-God government schools they are sending their kids to are the major reason. These kids are being totally trained in the world’s values and very few Christian parents are countering that at all – outside of making them go to church an hour a week – well, at least until they are teens, and rebel and won’t go anymore.

Even the parents that are trying to disciple their children in God’s ways at home, but still are putting their kids in the government schools are passing the unspoken message that the system is the expert, that they (the parents) aren’t capable of teaching their own children but that’s the system’s job with its educational experts. You can’t tell your kids that the teacher (in the system) is there to teach them, that they need to go to the system to be taught, and then tell them not to believe what they are taught. I see it over and over, and statistics bear it out, these kids do not keep the faith of their parents most of the time. Many (most!) rebel, some come back after a time – but very few have a Biblical way of life and thinking. They mix their “Christianity” with their worldly beliefs creating a lukewarm, nominal “Christian” who lives and thinks just like the world and wanders through life confused and without purpose – putting God and Christianity along with their belief in the Bible into their Sun. morning box; and living the rest of their week in relative humanism and evolutionistic beliefs. They don’t train their children in God’s ways because they don’t know them to be True themselves. They live a fragmented life – as a double-minded man, not knowing what to believe.

Another statistic. This comes from the Nehemiah Institute, on the PEERS test, an evaluation of Biblical Worldview and thinking in Politics, Economics, Education, Religion, and Social Issues. (See the earlier post entitled “Testing, Testing” for more info on the PEERS test.) These stats are for Christian adults and Christian School students (I don’t know if there are stats for government school students, none are given in the paper I have.) I would gather that the people taking this test are people that are interested in having a Biblical Worldview – that want to live and think and make decisions based upon the Truth that scripture gives us for all of life, as they are “Christians”, yet here are the results. The categories being: Biblical Theism, then Moderate Christian, then Secular Humanism, then Socialism. Christian adult’s average score is in the middle of the “Moderate Christian” worldview (in the combined score of the 5 areas tested). All of this group’s individual 5 area scores are within the “Moderate Christian” category. Christian School students score just barely into the “Moderate Christian” category, only 2% away from “Secular Humanism” in their thinking. This is their overall score in the 5 areas combined. They score well into the “Secular Humanism” category in Politics (the lowest of their percentages, 1/2 way down into this category), as well as in Economics and Education. Only in Religion do they make it midway into the “Moderate Christian” category, and their thinking on Social Issues is in the bottom 1/4 of the “Moderate Christian” category. Over 5% of Christians, (ministry leaders, adults, and Christian School students) that are interested in assessing their Worldview thinking, score in the Socialism category, and nearly 20% do not score up into either of the “Christian” categories (Biblical or Moderate). Nearly two-thirds of Christians (that are interested in having a Biblical Worldview) do not have a way of thinking that lines up with the Bible they claim to follow.

Our children are not just statistics, and none of us want to be categorized with status quo (I hope), but these statistics do point out that Christian adults aren’t raising their children in Christian values and worldview in this society we live in. It is difficult to instill those Christian values when all of society around us is combatting against them. It is also difficult because many Christian parents were not raised with those values intact. We were raised in a more “Christian professing” society, but even by our generation Christianity had taken on a nominal status and was being mixed with the world’s views. We as parents have had to learn Biblical Theism (belief in what the Bible says and living our lives accordingly) as adults. Although, from these results most Christian adults have not done this themselves, and even the moderate beliefs that most Christian adults have, are not being passed on intact to their children, even for their children in Christian schools where the Bible is not only allowed but is taught, these Biblical beliefs are deteriorating.

One more closing statistic (this one from Promise Keepers again) on where our evangelistic efforts have the greatest return. If a man comes to Christ there is a 92% chance that the family will come to Christ. For the remaining 2 stats about this I am unsure of which is which, I heard both ways and have been unable to verify which way it is yet. But the point is, there is a vast difference in outcome between leading a man to Christ, and another member of the family. The other percentages are: If the woman (wife/mom) (or perhaps it was teen, but I don’t think so) comes to Christ there’s a 31% chance of the family coming to Christ. If the teen comes to Christ there’s an 18% chance of the family coming to Christ. The point is there is a *FAR* greater impact of leading a man (head of a family) to Jesus, than leading the children or mother.

This is NOT to say that we shouldn’t lead moms and kids to the Lord. By all means, reach who you can, and by God’s grace they will reach others!! But another startling statistic is 82% of all Christian kids lose their faith when they go to college. Even by college age they are not strong enough to withstand the pressure of an educational system and the peer pressure there, to live their faith, let alone stand up for it. We have got to do *everything* we can to strengthen our children’s faith and give them a solidly Biblical worldview while they are under our care, that when they become adults and have to stand on their own, they will have the Rock Solid foundation of Jesus and His Word – the full teaching of the Bible that gives us all things that pertain to life and godliness – to stand on, and they will not slip and fall.

One closing comment on looking out for our own family and “not others” – as sometimes home educators are accused of “selfishly” doing. If all the other children are in the burning arms of Molech will you (any of us) put your children there too – unknowingly is bad enough, but purposely!? Do you not first care for your own children, then when their well-being is secure (and as that security is continually protected) you reach out to help others as you can. *But* you cannot rescue all the other children. God did not give you all the other children to care for. He gave you yours. He gave the others to their parents, and *they alone*, Christian or not, will be accountable for how they cared for them. Our hearts go out to those kids whose parents continue to try to defy God and His Word, and refuse to listen to and obey His council, for their children are being greatly harmed by it. They are the victims of their parents defiance of God and His Word. We must do what we can, but what we cannot do is usurp the authority of those parents over their own children.

I want to close with the opening paragraph of a book that I haven’t re-read in a long time, “Is Public Education Necessary?” by Samuel Blumenfeld (who also wrote “NEA Trojan Horse in American Education”). “It has been four years since the first publication of this book and everything that has happened in public education since then has proven my thesis to be correct: that not only is public education not necessary, but its continued existence makes true education for the vast majority of American children an impossibility, and it poses a threat to this country’s future freedom and security.”