Remote Island Home Ed

On an elist I’m on, the question was asked what if we were going to a remote island for a year. What resources would we take for continuing learning – aside from the awesome life experience we would receive there?

I have thought about this before. What if I didn’t have my thousands of books home library? What if all learning resources had to fit in a box? Actually, we have had a couple of times when we had very limited of our resources available and the rest in storage – during moves and remodeling, that lasted far longer than I thought.

I noted how when you know your philosophy and methodology you don’t have to run after the latest, greatest. It makes choosing new resources much easier. You can go to the huge homeschool convention and bypass most of the thousands of offerings without a thought of “oh I have to have that” because you know it doesn’t fit in with what your goals and methods to reach them are. And save your money for REAL books!!

I’m assuming my laptop doesn’t count, because even without internet, I think I COULD have it all on here – or close anyhow.

Even though we are (hypothetically) only going to be gone one year, and I don’t have to cover EVERYTHING during this time, I’ve tried to make my reading selections my top, most important ones. If I needed to pare down further, I would choose from what I have listed. Also, I have children at most every level, so … this will take a couple of boxes, maybe 3. And I’d throw out clothes, food, whatever to make room for books!! I’m assuming we can get paper and such supplies where we are going.

I’d mainly take handbook type resources that cover all of an area for skills – thus leaving me more room for real living reading books. Teaching from a Biblical Worldview by Bible Principles is important to us, so I would take my teaching notes for each subject as needed, too.

I’d start with our Bibles and Strong’s Concordance, and if I had the room, I’d throw in my Bible Truth for School Subjects. It’d take up room, and be heavy, but I’d also take my 1828 Webster’s dictionary. These are my primary resources for actually studying a topic out.

For teaching reading and spelling I would take my own phonics program, somewhat derived and simplified from combining aspects of Writing Road to Reading and Scaredy Cat Reading Program (I know, a weird combination) or just a handbook like The ABC’s and All Their Tricks along with a list of the phonograms and basic spelling rules.

For writing, a good English/Grammar Handbook should take care of it, coupled with copywork, dictation and such. Actually, it’d probably be two. I like Learning Grammar through Writing for the younger children’s handbook, and the BJU English Handbook for a complete one (the original Write Source handbook is a more user-friendly, “funner” handbook, that I might take instead). If I didn’t really know what I was doing in basic natural methods yet, I’d throw in Cindy Rushton’s Language Arts the Easy Way.

For Math I could get by without any resources for early elementary – if I didn’t have that down yet, I’d take Ruth Beechick’s “Easy Start in Arithmetic”. I could probably get by the rest of elementary with her “You Can Teach Your Child Successfully”. If not, Ray’s Arithmetic w/ Ruth Beechick’s teacher’s guide would be the most compact way to go. If I felt I really needed to make things easier on myself, I’d take Making Math Meaningful at the appropriate level for each child above early elementary.

Now with basic skills covered, and close to a box filled – our reading books:
For character training and self-government I’d take Character Sketches, another big, heavy book but my children love it. (I’d make myself get by with one Vol.)

For history I’d take Little Bear Wheeler’s Historical Devotions CD’s for my younger ones (oh, that would require batteries too), and Charles Coffin’s Story of Liberty/Sweet Land of Liberty, and America’s Providential History for my older ones. I’d also throw in several biographies of historically prominent people and heroes of the faith. And How Shall We Then Live? and/or Tearing Down Strongholds and/or If the Foundations Are Destroyed for worldview.

For Nature and the Sciences, a couple of field guides for the area (if available) and a couple or so from The Wonders of Creation series and/or the Exploring series from Master Books (like, The Astronomy Book, or The Geology Book, etc. and Exploring the World of Chemistry, Exploring the World Around You, etc.). Along these same lines for the little ones, they like the Simple Science series books. Also a few living books, such as Joanne DeJong’s (oop) Of Skies and Seas, My Listening Ears, or The Rustling Grass, etc. and/or Worthington Hooker’s The Child’s Book of Nature. Oh, and I wouldn’t want to leave out Unlocking the Mysteries of Creation.

I’d probably just take a general poetry book, such as Favorite Poems Old and New, and maybe a Child’s Garden of Verses.

For music, The Gift of Music or Spiritual Lives of the Great Composers, and a few classical CD’s, a few hymn CD’s and book of Hymn stories w/short bios of the writers, our hymnal and psalm book. Of course, my electric stage piano would have to go too – or at least our smaller keyboard.

For art, How Great Thou Art, and my collection of David Quine’s and Barry Stebbing’s art prints and studies (from Homeschooling Today mag – you could get Quine’s Art program for basically the same thing,)

For literature I’d take a few “Lamplighters” (Rare Collector’s series – great old books republished by Lamplighter Publishing), a few books by Oliver Optic (my younger children’s current favorites), Pilgrim’s Progress would have to be included, and probably Dangerous Journey (a child’s picture book of PP). A few other classics, chosen from such as Robinson Crusoe, Les Miserables, Silas Marner, Ben Hur, Robin Hood, Ivanhoe, etc. For the younger ones, things like Charlotte’s Web, Stuart Little, Thornton Burgess stories, Winnie the Pooh treasury, Beatrix Potter treasury, and James Herriot treasury. And a few Margaret Wise Brown books and the Real Mother Goose, for the littlest ones. And The Child’s Story Bible.

I’d also take a couple of “growing into godly manhood/womanhood” books. And several “theological” books – probably mostly written by “dead authors” like Bunyan, Luther, etc.

I’m sure my boxes are full now, so I’d better quit. 🙂

 

My Home Ed Starter Library

What books would I buy to begin my home library if I was just starting (and knew what I know after having read all these)? I really thought putting a list together would be much harder than this. But I find I go back to the same resources over and over. Most others are usually just read once, then shelved. I also find myself recommending these ones over and over to others.

When we began home educating I don’t think there were 10 books available on home education. I sure couldn’t find that many. But over the years our home library has increased to thousands of books, most of them used within the teaching and training of our children.

As I put together our website, I was challenged to think in terms of “What is the best of the best?” and “What most clearly puts forth a solid Biblical education foundation that a Lifestyle Education through Discipleship can be built upon”. Out of those many cases of books, I found 10 Top Picks that I believe to be foundational.

Of course, there are others that I still believe are very good. And still others that were more instrumental in our own journey. Many on this list were not even written when we began or formulated Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. But I think I can unhesitantly recommend the list below as the Top 10 Resources I would begin with to build a solid foundation for educating my children for the glory of God – that is, for a strong Biblical Worldview education. That is the reason we are Christians educating at home, right?

The entire list can be purchased for less than $200 (if you use our links to place your order at discount prices), a tremendous bargain for a foundational library that will be used throughout your entire life and learning. Why don’t you add one or more to your home library today? You’ll not regret it. And no doubt be blessed and encouraged.

You can read more about these foundational resources here.

My Home Ed Starter Library Contains:
A Home School Vision of Victory by Doug Phillips
Let Us Highly Resolve by David & Shirley Quine
When You Rise Up: A Convenantal Approach to Homeschooling by R.C. Sproul, Jr.
Excused Absence: Should Christian Kids Leave Public Schools? by Doug Wilson
Homeschooling from a Biblical Worldview by Israel Wayne
7 Pillars of Wisdom tape series by Paul Jehle
A Guide to American Christian Education by James Rose
The Philosophy of the Christian Curriculum by R.J. Rushdoony
Encyclopedia of Bible Truths by Ruth Haycock – 4 Volumes
The 3 R’s series by Ruth Beechick (to get you started in practical application of Lifestyle methodology) This series is for beginners. For older children Mrs. Beechick has written You Can Teach Your Child Successfully.

All but 2 can be ordered through our website. 7 Pillars of Wisdom is not available online. And The Philosophy of the Christian Curriculum is available from the author’s site.

 

They’re Back! – Bible Truths

Greetings from Me and My House,

They’re back! And I am SO excited! One of my favorite resources is finally back. These have been hard to find since they went out of publication a few years ago. And I am super-glad to be able to provide them again.

Encyclopedia of Bible Truths by Ruth Haycock had finally been republished! We have used and recommended this from the beginning, when it was 4 individual volumes. Then it went to a single, all-in-one book, and now is back in 4 volumes again.

These books are like a Topical Bible for school subjects, giving Biblical concepts (principles) and related verses for various content areas within each subject. The four volumes are: Lanugage Arts/English, Social Studies, Science/Mathematics, and Fine Arts/Health, and there is a slight discount for buying the 4 Volume Set.

Check them out (and/or order) through these links!
4 Volume Set
Language Arts/English
Social Studies
Science/Mathematics
Fine Arts/Health

ALSO – I’m working on my Creation & Order Resources page on my site. It should be up in a day or two. Check it out here.

At Jesus’ feet,
Lisa @Me and My House

Order Christian and Home Ed Resources Here

Lesson Plans

Today is a weekday, so that must mean I am suppose to blog here. Yes, I know it’s nearly two weeks after I made this proclamation. I haven’t totally been “gone”, there are some pretty “general” posts over at my homeschoolblogger blog. See, I do post different things in the various places. One of the additions over there is a list of links. It’s generally general Christianity websites. I’ll work on some home ed ones for here – and get the others up at the Clear Vision blog [new Amazing Grace blog] too. Ok, enough formalities, what do I have to say today.

A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.” Proverbs 16:9 Let’s go back to a blog I was working on when life so rudely interrupted me. Recently I was called an unschooler, and also asked (by someone else, in a totally different context) how much, if any, lesson planning I do.

Though I’ve clearly stated it here before, just for the record, I’m not an unschooler. Lifestyle Education through Discipleship™ was based upon principles very far from it. But neither am I a lock-step “schooler”. I am a disciple-er. And, yes, I do tons of lesson planning.

But my lesson plans are held loosely. I may devise my ways, but the Lord directs my paths. I teach my children as we “sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.” But when I try to hold too tightly to what I have planned, and have so neatly scoped out, God always steps in to show me other priorities He has for the time.

I can lay out the perfect lessons for 6 weeks of instruction in Astronomy, before moving on to Medieval History, and say we will “finish” by such and such a date. But do I know all the lessons God will present, that will take precedence at times? The deep look he wants us to take into being doers, not only hearers, of the Word; the special extended times of worshipping Him; learning to delight in Him, not serve Him in drudgery; And the times of helping daddy hang drywall, and run to Menards. And yes, the times for special visits from the grandgirls, and our brand new grandson.

The “plans” will be completed, but perhaps not within my “planned” time frame. We just take things one step at a time. Sometimes we will follow closely to the way I thought it would look. Other times, even within the teaching of a specific lesson, God will take it a direction I hadn’t planned. And His way always turns out better than I had thought.

I love to plan and organize – though never seem to have enough time to do all I’d like – so I lay out a sequence, and general design, sometimes quite explicit, others quite loose. But as I allow the Lord to guide my planning, I try to always hold it loosely, knowing that it will be accomplished in His way, in His time.

 

The Beginning of Wisdom

This week I want to continue on laying the foundation we started last week. We are working off of 2 primary Scriptures that show us that this is where we need to begin. “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” (Pro. 4:7 – but read the whole chapter) And, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.” (Pro. 9:10 – again, read the whole chapter) Add to that, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments : his praise endureth for ever.” (Psalm 111:10)

In a past post, I summed up a working definition of wisdom that was stated thus:
“Wisdom is being able to see the Big Picture, God’s view and purpose, and then carrying through and acting on it. ” I don’t know how long or how far I will carry this this week, but for today I just want to make a couple of general observations.

“For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God.” (1 Cor. 3:19) “This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.” (James 3:15) “But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.” (James 3:17) Not all that is called “wisdom” is true wisdom from the Lord. Some of it is just plain fleshly foolishness. The wisdom we desire to teach our children is the wisdom of God, from His Word.

Pro. 2:6 tells us that “the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.” (read also, at least vss. 1-11) And, James 1:5-6 says, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering.” Because, as Pro. 2:7 says, “He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous. ” God is the source of true wisdom and He will give it to the “righteous” that ask for it in faith. We are told that “thou shalt seek the LORD thy God, thou shalt find him , if thou seek him with all thy heart and with all thy soul.” (Deut. 4:29) So we are to seek for wisdom, “seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures;” (Pro. 2:4) We are to seek with all our hearts. For God’s wisdom is in His Word, and it will be found by those that seek it.

Which leads me to my second initial observation. The Proverbs are a great place to begin looking for God’s Wisdom. They contain much for us to learn about wisdom.. A whole curriculum could be built upon the Proverbs. In fact, that is exactly what they are, a parent’s instructions (the college curriculm given to a young son) for living a successful life.

One small thing that you can do to begin laying this foundation in wisdom is to begin reading the Proverbs daily. Read them as a family. Disuss them and reason from them. An easy discipline to follow is to read the “Proverb of the Day” every month – Pro. 1 on the 1st, Pro. 2 on the 2nd, etc. You will read through the book of Proverbs every month. (You can double up on chapters 30 and 31 in the months that only have 30 days.) Don’t think you will exhaust what can be gleaned from these words of God’s Wisdom in 1, 2 or a few months. The depths are endless. Also, begin memorizing from the Proverbs. There are great passages and whole chapters that are worth comitting to memory.

Well, there’s a starter for you. We’ll continue tomorrow, Lord willing.

 

Come My Children, Listen to Me

In concluding these foundational messages on the Fear of the Lord, do you feel like you have a grasp on it? Is it making sense?

More importantly, are you beginning to internalize it? Are you growing in the fear of the Lord? Are you finding a new awe in His awesomeness? Are you seeing Him for the wonderfully perfect God that He is? Are you recognizing His absolute Majesty?

If you haven’t been following along in our study, take the time to go through your Bible and find all the references to the fear of the Lord. Read them in context. Meditate on them. Pray over them. Memorize them. Ask God to make them clear and real to you. Then ask Him to help you pull it all together, to see the Big Picture of what the fear of the Lord truly is and how it is to be applied in your life – how it is the foundational depths of all of life and learning.

As you grow and follow the Lord in this, bring your children alongside you. Share what you are learning/have learned. Bring them into their own study of this. Have them look up and mediate on the Scriptures. Have them reflect and reason from the Scripture, and come to Biblical conclusions, as much as possible, on their own (or with a bit of guidance from you as needed).

This is discipleship. This is Lifestyle Education through Discipleship. And this study on the fear of the Lord is the beginning of the foundation of all of Life and Learning. It is the place to start.

Are you saying, “But this isn’t phonics and physics, arithmetic and zoology”? Remember, we are laying the most important foundation, according to the Word, to study those things and more. For “Wisdom is the principal thing” and “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom”. I believe this verse should be memorized by every Christian parent:
And further, by these, my son, be admonished: of making many books there is no end; and much study is a weariness of the flesh. Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil. (Ecc. 12:12-14)

Why don’t you begin the teaching and training of your children today with Psalm 34:11:
Come, ye children, hearken unto me: I will teach you the fear of the LORD.

Next week, we will move on to Wisdom – the Principal Thing, Lord willing. Although I’ve written much about it in the past, my goal is to pull it together for you here, next week.

 

The Conclusion of this Matter

Today I’m still continuing a look at the fear of the Lord, with a brief conclusion. Tomorrow, I will wrap it up. If you haven’t been following these posts, you can start back at Sat. Jan. 7 for Let’s Start at the Very Beginning – or to some groundwork laid before that on the 5th and 6th.

For the non-Christian the fear of the Lord is truly, and rightfully, a very scarey thing (Luke 12:4-5). It is definitely not something they want to think of. It reminds them that in the end, they will not get away with anything, and they will pay the wages of their sin, which is death and hell. Not a fun subject to discuss, but the truth of our existance.

But for the Christian, the fear of the Lord is a truly humbling thing. It is still recognizing that we have sinned, that we are deserving of hell just as surely as the non-Christian, for “all have sinned” and the “wages of sin are death”. But we willingly see that God is God and He is Just. Because in that we can trust His faithfulness to ALL His Word.

We are humbled that He chose to, not ignore our sins, but to pay the wages of them Himself. That His mercy was longsuffering. He didn’t execute the penalty of our sin upon us immediately, but in His goodness, He was patient to bring us to repentence.

The fear of the Lord is an awesome thing. Even though it means much more than awe or reverence for Who God is, it truly includes such. For when we fear the Lord, we do truly stand in awe of Who He is, and we do truly reverence Him to the utmost.

With this foundation laid, I will wrap up this topic tomorrow, Lord willing.

 

Believers are Doers

No question about it, my mind has lost its focus on the continuation of this topic. That new baby (our grandson born Mon.), and keeping my own family at our home on track, through this birth, the visit of another daughter and grand-girls (LOVE to have them!), and a relative’s funeral today (that car trouble on the way there prevented our family from attending) has got me a little off track the last couple of days. I have plenty more to say -as always, but no guarantees of a nice smooth continuation Hopefully I have laid the foundational understanding of the fear of the Lord – what it is and why it is so important to begin there with our children.

In beginning to build upon that, start by reading James 1:22-25:
But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.

What we are looking at here is the idea that we began with in laying the fear of the Lord as the depths of our foundation. To fear God is really to trust His faithfulness. It is to believe Him, and act accordingly.

We are either Believers or Doubters. Either we know that God says what He means and means what He says, or else we doubt Him – “maybe not”. Maybe “I” can get away with it. “I” don’t have to obey.

When we say that we are Believers, then we believe what God says and act accordingly, because He says we will reap what we sow. And we believe Him. Hebrews 11:6 tells us that he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. because without faith it is impossible to please him. Without belief it is impossible to please Him. If we think we can hear His Word and then not do it, we don’t really believe it. We don’t really believe Him. We have no faith.

We cannot be a believer without being a doer. If we are not a doer we are a hearer only and “forget” what manner of man we are. We forget we are sinners and deserving of the judgement of God. We forget that we will reap what we sow. We forget that God is not a man that He should lie. We do not believe God. We do not fear Him.

Perhaps this sounds negative, and a harsh thing to teach. But again this is not the end! But it is the foundation. We must know and teach that God is God and we are not. That He makes the rules and we are to follow them. Until our children see that they are in a sorry, helpless state, they will see no need for a Savior. As long as they think that if there is a God, He won’t hold them accountable, they will do as they please, then whine or blame others when they suffer the consequences of their actions. This is not harsh negativity. This is Truth, and as we build on it, they (and we) will see just how much we can trust God. How His unchanging faithfulness to His Nature, Name and Word is a glorious thing for us. Because He is also Love. His Love, He, is unchangable, unrelenting, unstopable. And everything He allows in our life, He has under control. Nothing catches God off guard. Nothing is unpreventable by Him. So we will be OK, because He is watching out for us. He died for us. Not because we are so good. Not becuase we deserve it. But because He is who HE IS -I AM!

He is God and I am not! A good life principle to believe.